Ever since I met a papa who constantly tells me how cute I am, I’ve started liking myself more and feel like I’ve really blossomed.
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Even when we can’t see each other every day, I’m able to stay cheerful and approach everything positively. My figure has improved, and I’ve even learned how to climax during sex, lol.
He’s improved my life in ways that go beyond my mental well-being, too. He’ll say, “This looks like it would suit you,” and buy me high-quality accessories, dresses, and knitwear—including things in different colors—that I could never afford myself. He’s even raised my sense of worth as a woman.
He spoils me to an unbelievable extent.
Maybe that’s why I’ve started feeling like I don’t love my boyfriend anymore.
We’ve even talked about marriage and have met each other’s families.
He’s a wonderful boyfriend, but I’m starting to lose the desire to be intimate with him.
Am I being too self-centered for taking my papa’s sweet words seriously?
This relationship is only temporary, right?
Wow (ᯅ̈), I’m jealous! Even my boyfriend doesn’t compliment me that much.
When I ask him things like, “Am I pretty?” or “Do you like me?” because I want to hear compliments, he’ll say yes—but if I don’t ask, he never says it on his own.
Everything is temporary, so while you can still hear those words, have him tell you as much as possible.
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Even if he genuinely means it when he calls you cute, it’s still temporary because money is involved in the relationship.
It sounds like you have a wonderful papa—almost like something out of a movie or TV drama. But realistically, once you get used to a higher standard, it’s not easy to go back to a lower one.
You could look for another high-quality boyfriend, explore ways to earn money on your own, and so on.
Think about what’s best for you.
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Perhaps you should take another moment to think about what happiness you truly want.
If being a papa-katsu girl fulfills you so much that your real life feels dull by comparison—and if that fulfillment is money—then you should simply work toward staying someone’s mistress long-term.
If you’re only half-committed, whether it’s dating or marriage, the other person will end up unhappy. Why not break things off so you can both meet someone better sooner?
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I think it’s a good thing that being doted on by your papa (a male supporter) has helped boost your confidence and made you more beautiful.
But your papa isn’t serious about you. Would you really be okay with your boyfriend or his family finding out about what you’re doing? If you’re genuinely planning to get married, I think you should give it some thought. Marriage isn’t everything, and it may not last forever, but I do think it’s important to save money.
Why not talk to your papa about marrying your boyfriend? He might cut things off, or he might tell you he still wants to continue. Still, I don’t think he’s serious about you—he’s simply investing in you as you become more attractive while telling you how cute you are.
And perhaps what you really like is having someone invest in you.
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Perhaps this is a good opportunity to think once again about whether you truly want to get married.
Personally, I believe marriage is the best institution for having children, so if you don’t want children, there’s no particular need to get married.
Of course, everyone has different values, so I recommend moving forward in the direction you want.
※I know what you mean—it’s fun being doted on by your papa (a male supporter) and having everything from the things you wear onward become more plentiful.
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It’s a relationship with an expiration date.
Your papa (a male supporter) may tell you that you’re cute, but he never says anything that hints he’s serious—like wanting to date you or marry you, right?
Why not try telling him, “I have a boyfriend I want to marry, but I want to break up with him and be with you”?
A papa who isn’t serious will panic. If you can’t bring yourself to say that, it means you aren’t serious about him either.
Even if he tells you he is serious, I think it might put you in a difficult position, so it’s probably better not to say it.
I think it’s enough to simply continue being grateful to your papa.
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