All of the papas I’m currently seeing meet with me once or twice a month and give me an allowance of 50,000 yen. I’d rather see the same person several times a month than juggle multiple people, but I haven’t been able to find someone I really click with who wants that kind of arrangement, so I’ve continued seeing several people until I find the right one.
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I saw someone write in the Q&A section that generous (well-paying) papas are easier to find at lounges and similar places, so I recently started working at a lounge as well. It’s the slow season and there aren’t many customers, but every now and then someone invites me to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I feel like I might find the kind of papa I’m looking for eventually. If you know of any other places where I might be able to find generous (well-paying) papas, please let me know m(__)m
Also, one of the papas I met recently asked me, “You don’t work at a lounge or anything, do you?” Was it just a coincidence? We’d never talked about anything like that before, so it really startled me.
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I think lounges could be a good option too.
These days, there are even dating clubs that specialize in lounges, and I hear things about “Chike●,” “●kkan,” and “●LDK.”
The least expensive girl was asking for under 50,000 yen, so it really feels like the industry is in its death throes… I can’t help being shocked by how much the figures have been dropping lately.
I do go to lounges occasionally, but I never make those kinds of propositions.
It’s a hassle when they’re registered with a dating club.
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At clubs, they keep your ID on file and you pay a membership fee, so at least there’s a system where you’ll lose out if you don’t follow the basic rules.
But be careful with lounges.
There may be generous (well-paying) papas there, but I’ve seen several regulars at lounges try to get an adult relationship (intimate) for free. There aren’t really any rules, after all.
I’ve heard stories from lounge women who were promised things like, “I’ll make you my mistress,” or “I’ll buy you a condo,” only to be intimate with them based on nothing more than a verbal promise—and then the man disappeared.
He was a company president, and because he was a regular, everyone trusted him. He used the same trick on several women around the same time.
Please make sure you judge people carefully so you don’t end up learning the hard way.
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Joe may be clueless about women’s feelings, but he’s incredibly perceptive when it comes to lounges. He’s trouble. Maybe your papa (a male supporter) has the same “ability,” too. There’s actually a tell, but it’s a trade secret, so I can’t share it here.
If he asks again, keep a straight face and firmly deny everything. Even though it’ll be totally obvious.
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So you’ve started working at a lounge.
If you can sense what the other person is looking for, be genuine, treat your papa (male supporter) as an equal, and make him feel masculine, I’m sure you’ll eventually find someone.
And the reason you were asked, “You’re not working at a lounge, are you?” is because you’re beautiful. Be confident in yourself.
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I’m just a short, fat, bald old man. Sorry for being alive m(_ _)m
I’ve never seen or even heard of a tall, handsome, muscular guy like that being a papa, so they probably don’t actually exist.
Ellie, I’d love to see one... I’d love to be completely wrecked and then discarded, lol.
There are people like me—halfway-decent generous papas—on Universe too, but the truly generous ones with tens of billions of yen or more are probably off climbing mountains and things.
So if you’re aiming to climb Everest or cross Antarctica, you might run into one eventually. I’m not teasing you—that’s genuine advice.
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