Regarding the previous woman’s question, isn’t offering only ¥5,000 for transportation on the first meeting clearly against the rules? I do remember the club’s website previously saying ¥5,000–¥10,000, but when I checked just now, the section for men explaining what happens on the day of the date says: “As a club rule, you are required to give the woman transportation money (¥10,000).” I don’t know when this was changed, but since it clearly says ¥10,000, is it fair to consider men who give only ¥5,000 to be violating the rules? If the amount starts at ¥5,000, then the club should say “¥5,000 and up” on every relevant page of its official website, right?
This content is machine-translated.
I’ve met 30 men, and only one of them gave me ¥5,000. I was honestly put off, so I sent him an email afterward saying, “This was my first time meeting a man who gave ¥5,000. I felt that you don’t have much financial余裕, so that important money would be better spent on yourself or your family rather than on a woman.” He never replied. Does giving only ¥5,000 for transportation on the first meeting mean that he simply doesn’t want to give her any money at all???
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂Not stated👑Universe female member
I’m late to the discussion.
The terms haven’t been revised, so I believe this was a typo—but it’s not entirely inaccurate either.
Actually…
(the unwritten rule finally being revealed)
Only for Black women, the allowance had been set at ¥10,000—not ¥5,000–¥10,000—for quite some time.
It was written as a note that transportation expenses were ¥10,000 only when a Black man made an offer to a Black woman.
So if the questioner is a Black woman, then the man was mistaken in saying ¥5,000.
If not, the official range is ¥5,000–¥10,000, but in reality, very few people offer only ¥5,000.
When there’s a range of ¥5,000–¥10,000 to choose from, I don’t think most men would choose ¥5,000 for a woman they liked.
It seems more common for ¥5,000 to be offered when, after meeting her, they feel she looked worse than her photos or that they don’t want to meet her again.
That’s just the general understanding, so I don’t think offering ¥5,000 technically violates the terms.
I’m sorry if I was simply unaware of a revision.
But if she’s Black, it has been ¥10,000 all along.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
The terms still say:
> On the day of the date, members must give the female member the transportation fee separately stipulated by our company (¥5,000 to ¥10,000) in advance.
https://universe-club.jp/men/fullagreement/
I believe this is a mistake in the instructions for men regarding the flow of the date day.
In any case, I’ve informed the staff at the branch about the error.
Update:
https://universe-club.jp/men/flow/
They’ve corrected it.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
The section I saw (visible after logging in) says it ranges from ¥5,000 to ¥10,000.
I understand that some people simply don’t have much money, and I’m not here to criticize the ¥5,000 amount itself. But when I think of a papa who offers ¥5,000, I picture someone who doesn’t care much about his grooming or appearance and probably has a bad attitude. That’s just my personal impression, though m(_ _)m
But it’s probably not far from the truth, right?
Even if he’s wearing inexpensive clothes, he could shave, trim his nose hair, lose weight if he’s overweight, and make whatever effort he can. If he approached things with good manners and a gentlemanly attitude, saying, “I’m sorry I can only offer ¥5,000. My allowance for an adult relationship is also only ¥30,000, but I came because I’d really like to get to know a wonderful woman like you,” I feel that kind of politeness and humility would make a big difference. Just my personal opinion.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I honestly don’t understand why.
If you’re paying for a relationship, I can’t wrap my head around people who get to spend a great time with a woman and then give her no more than 10,000 yen in return.
Maybe they just don’t feel much gratitude toward women—or toward the world in general… Perhaps they don’t feel any at all.
If they were truly grateful, I feel like God would grant any wish they made…
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
