Tips Feb 15, 2022 15:47

I’ve wondered about this for a while too—what makes people assume that girls raised in all-girls schools have little experience? At all-girls schools, we went to tons of group dates, and dating apps had already become popular when I was in middle school. I’ve been with more than 20 people.

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Unless you were the one girl in class who was absolutely unattractive and unpopular, I think most of us had been in at least five relationships. Two or three is practically unheard of—the numbers are on a completely different scale. Maybe it was different in the past? More girls say they’ve been with 20 or 30 people. That said, in front of men, I always answer “two or three,” and when I’m presenting myself to a papa (a male supporter) as a classy, innocent type, I say it’s my first time lol. Sorry, papas. I honestly thought there weren’t any men who really believed that, but do men actually believe it? Also, isn’t the assumption that girls raised in all-girls schools have little experience a bit extreme?
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It’s probably just an assumption fueled by the fantasies of men who aren’t popular with women. If it works for you, I don’t see why you shouldn’t use it without worrying about what others think. Fuu’s younger sister went to an all-girls school in Tokyo and then an all-women’s university. During the height of the bubble era, she was out there having a blast at mixers in crop tops, so Fuu actually understands that, depending on the school, girls from all-girls schools can be even wilder(笑).
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He was probably the type of guy who saw what he wanted to see. Whether she went to a co-ed school or an all-girls school, a promiscuous woman is still a promiscuous woman, right?
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> What makes you assume that women who went to all-girls schools have little experience? The premise of the question makes it sound like all men think that way, but that’s simply not true. I think the premise itself is flawed.
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Joe got his first real girlfriend in the fall of his sophomore year of high school: Yasuko, a student at a prestigious girls’ school near ours, known for being a school for wealthy young ladies. The first thing she told me when we started dating was, “My previous boyfriend was 30.” These days, that would send my imagination in all sorts of directions, but back then Joe was a total virgin. I gave the utterly uninteresting reply, “Wow, he was quite a bit older than you.” So, personally, I’ve never had any fantasies about girls’ schools. That said, I suppose it depends a lot on the individual. What do you think? At the very least, boys’ schools have some pretty extreme differences. There were very few shy, inexperienced guys like Joe. The biggest playboy—do people still say that?—was Eiji, who was also on the rugby team. I was always jealous because the girls who came to watch his matches were different every time. He went to the same university as I did—he was in medical school—and apparently reached the point where he barely had time to keep his pants on. Last summer, I saw him for the first time in several decades, since we graduated from university. He was still the same womanizer, though he had also become something of a local notable.
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I think it’s naïve to assume that a woman who went to an all-girls’ school must have little experience with men. And what’s your point?
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I think it may be a generational difference… I went to an all-girls school from high school onward, so I really grew up without having much interaction with men. That may have been even more true because I pursued a specialized field. Some men may have noticed, but I think they want to keep their dreams alive, so please let them stay that way.
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