If the travel allowance for the first meeting is only ¥5,000, does that mean the allowance for an adult relationship will probably be low too, or am I overthinking it?
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(It was my first time after meeting 10 people.)
I spent over three hours with just coffee and cake, couldn’t even get a refill, and now that I’ve finally been released, I’m having coffee.
They seemed to like me, but I’m not sure whether I should see them again.
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> If the travel allowance for the first meeting is ¥5,000, I feel like the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) would probably be low too. Am I just imagining that?
Since they said ¥5,000–¥10,000 and chose the lower end of ¥5,000, I think it’s only natural to assume the allowance is probably low as well.
I don’t think it’s just your imagination—I think you’re probably right. Still, it wouldn’t hurt to ask.
It would be amazing if the travel allowance was ¥5,000 but the allowance was ¥100,000 per meeting. However, I’d say there’s about a 99% chance that isn’t the case.
> I’m unsure whether I should go next time.
If you’re hesitating, why not ask, “How much allowance are you thinking for an adult relationship (intimate)?”
If they say they can’t discuss it on LINE, I’d say there’s a good chance the amount is low.
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That sounds exhausting. After you spent three hours entertaining such a self-centered tea date, it’s only natural that he liked you… You must be tired.
I’m not very good at asking about the amount myself, so I often ended up going to a hotel on the other person’s offered terms for the first meeting. But to avoid risks, I think it’s a good idea to ask about the allowance over LINE.
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Probably “Ramen Jiro” (allowance: 20,000 yen)… At best, maybe “Sanshiro” (allowance: 30,000–40,000 yen).
As someone who considers himself a generous papa, I usually offer 20,000–40,000 yen for transportation, and 100,000–160,000 yen for a first adult relationship offer.
As an aside, I sometimes wonder whether I’m winning them over with stacks of cash, so I tried “Carlos” (pay-per-meeting: 50,000 yen). I got an okay without any problems, and gave her 100,000 yen in the room.
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I’m not sure about the transportation allowance at Universe Club, but I think you should ask your partner how much they offer for an adult relationship (intimate).
A low transportation allowance doesn’t necessarily mean the allowance for an adult relationship is low, so you can’t really know. It’s better to ask and get a clear answer.
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