Isn’t it kind of sad when a beautiful woman in her 30s isn’t married? I can understand if she’s a celebrity, but… Someone like Satomi Ishihara is so out of everyone’s league that men probably avoided approaching her for that reason.
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But ordinary, unmarried women in their 30s who are active at clubs (Platinum to Black) must have some kind of problem, right? Young, beautiful women marry handsome men or wealthy older men while they’re still in their 20s. I could understand if she were extremely career-focused, but setting aside women who have been married before, there must be some reason why a woman in her 30s who has never been married at all can’t get married, right???
My papa (a male supporter) told me that if a woman doesn’t get married by her 20s, she won’t be able to get married even if she’s beautiful, and now I’m worried even though I’m only 20.
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So you generally feel that single women in their 30s are kind of pathetic, right?
Once you turn 30, I think you’ll realize how foolish that way of thinking was.
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I don’t know what kind of people you’re talking about, but among those who graduate from college, work, and lead fulfilling lives, hardly anyone gets married in their 20s.
Most of my friends got married in their 30s, with quite a few waiting until their late 30s.
When someone is still single in their 40s, I tend to think they’ve chosen not to marry for personal reasons or principles.
Do you mean rural delinquents, where everyone gets married in their 20s?
That said, getting married early and finishing raising your children by around 40 doesn’t seem like such a bad option either.
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Marriage is a one-way ticket to hell.
You’re much better off saving as much money as possible and living alone for the rest of your life—it’s definitely freer and more enjoyable.
That 30-something might already have saved over 100 million yen.
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Even if she’s beautiful and successful in her career, why does she have to get married—the graveyard of life?
What your papa (a male supporter) said isn’t necessarily right.
Were you born in the Showa era?
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Don’t take what a papa like that says at face value!
I thought, “You’re in your 20s, but your values are so old-fashioned and narrow-minded.” So that was the twist, huh?
I think the best thing is to actually meet and talk with women in their 30s and 40s. Choosing not to get married is totally valid, and I’m sure you’ll find people who can relate to that.
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There are probably plenty of ordinary people who are still considered totally out of someone’s league.
And I don’t think marriage is everything. You don’t have to get married in your 20s.
Are you in such a hurry because you’re as beautiful as Satomi Ishihara? If you want to find a wonderful husband, a dating club probably isn’t where you should be spending your time.
Good luck with your婚活!
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I can’t relate to the questioner’s belief that marriage should be everyone’s ultimate goal. I don’t think everyone wants to get married.
The idea that you can’t get married unless you do so in your twenties is also rather narrow-minded. Plenty of women get married in their thirties, and one of our employees even got married in her fifties.
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It’s not painful at all.
For someone in their 20s, the person asking the question has a surprisingly old-fashioned way of thinking. I don’t think even people in their 50s necessarily feel that way.
Whether you get married or not is entirely up to you.
That said, if you’re feeling pressured, then I think you should find a good person and get married.
Not many people seem to be in such a rush these days, but everyone has their own way of thinking.
Good luck finding someone great.
Wait, wasn’t this a Q&A site for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? If you want to talk about marriage, I think you’d be better off posting in a marriage-related section.
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