Tips Feb 14, 2022 07:50

Hello! I have a question about transportation expenses. The other day, I made an offer to a woman in her late 20s, Class C. Since we didn’t have much time on the day of our first meeting, we agreed to dinner only. We seemed to share similar interests, so I thought it would be nice just to talk. After our second meeting, I asked about an adult relationship (intimate), but she seemed troubled, apparently because the terms of the arrangement were too low. She asked, “You’ll pay transportation expenses separately too, right?” I’ve been using the club for a long time, but no one had ever asked me for transportation expenses after the second meeting, so I told her not to push herself. However, we ended up going to a hotel. She wasn’t really in the mood, and in the end, we couldn’t go all the way, so we gradually lost contact. Do you usually give transportation expenses after the second meeting, other than when the woman lives far away?

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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s not about transportation costs or anything like that—the total allowance is simply too low. It seems like one of those situations where a man and a woman fail to communicate and end up arguing.
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There’s no travel allowance from the second meeting onward.
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It means, “The allowance was a little low, so it would be okay if you added roughly enough to cover my transportation.” The woman probably isn’t asking for transportation costs every time, and there’s no rule saying you have to give her money for transportation. Marika
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I feel like you’re missing the point. Normally, women probably don’t receive transportation money after the second meeting either. But I think the asker’s allowance was simply too low, and she felt that amount wouldn’t work. She only asked about transportation money to decide whether an additional ¥10,000 would make it barely acceptable—even though it would still be low. Rather than focusing on whether you gave her transportation money, I think you should reconsider the allowance you’re offering, since it was low enough to disappoint her. Honestly, I’m more impressed by the kindness of the woman who agreed instead of turning you down. There are many kind women on Universe, so please try not to trample on their feelings. > “I wasn’t in the mood, so I couldn’t go through with it and eventually faded out.” Was that sentence really necessary? Maybe you were trying to make the woman look bad and give the impression that things didn’t work out because she brought up transportation money. But it simply happened because you’re normally a man who can’t get it up. Rather than putting on airs, I think you should take something like Viagra. Whether you can get it up or not is your own issue. When I think about the possibility that you treated her that way, I can’t help wondering: What do you think women are?
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t provide transportation money separately.
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I only provide transportation money for the first meeting because it’s part of the club’s rules. From the second meeting onward, everything is included when we discuss the terms.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
If she’s coming from within the same area, rather than giving a separate transportation fee, I give her enough that the travel cost isn’t really an issue. If I’m asking her to come from farther away, I keep the allowance and transportation costs completely separate—for example, 100,000 yen allowance plus 30,000 yen for transportation, for a total of 130,000 yen.
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