Do you think there are women at these clubs who will genuinely fall for you, rather than just giving you a sales pitch?
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The women in their 20s seemed too young and focused on keeping things transactional, so I mainly received offers from women in their 30s—but none of them have genuinely fallen for me.
Could it happen with women in their 40s?
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I’ve genuinely fallen for my papa.
He’s around 50, so he’s still at an age where he could pass for a boss or someone like that. I also tend to fall for people easily, so these are real feelings.
If your papa is in his 60s, the odds are probably lower, but I think there are still people out there who occasionally develop genuine feelings.
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Women who will genuinely fall in love with you?
If you go to a marriage agency, I think most of the people there are serious about finding a partner. Since marriage is the goal for people who are serious, that’s where you should go if by “serious” you mean looking for someone to marry.
I saw a TV segment about women using a marriage agency the other day.
One woman said that during a date, she heard the man had bought shirts and everyday necessities at Ito-Yokado, and remarked:
“So rich people really are stingy. Is it okay if I end the relationship?”
The agency staff tried their best to explain that this didn’t make him stingy.
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I’m not sure. If you want a woman to genuinely like you, I think you have to offer something other than money.
That’s just how women’s feelings work, in my opinion.
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I don’t think it’s impossible.
I don’t know what kind of person you are, but there are plenty of wonderful people in their 60s. Even if the woman is young, she might genuinely fall for you if she finds you attractive.
That said, if she’s too young, people will assume, “She’s only after his money,” even if she truly has feelings, so some women may choose to hide them.
Like Marika, I’m also the type who falls for people easily. In my case, I have very little experience, so I’m vulnerable when someone treats me kindly. I’m sure there are others like that too.
If you have genuine appeal, you may find someone who develops real feelings for you. But this is a dating club where people engage in pseudo-romance for money. If you’re looking for something genuine, wouldn’t a matchmaking agency or a dating app for people seeking marriage be more suitable?
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They say, “Beauty is justice,” right?
The male version of that is:
“Financial power is justice.”
Would you fall for an unattractive woman with a good personality? Conversely, do you really think a young woman would fall for a good-looking older man who’s broke?
If you want a young woman to like you, start by making an overwhelming amount of money. And this next part is extremely important: give her an allowance of at least 100,000 yen. Then we can talk.
Having money but offering a low allowance is basically the same as being poor.
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I’m sorry, but the problem is expecting a woman in her 30s to genuinely fall in love with a man in his 60s.
As the man, you should keep enough emotional distance to see it as adult fun.
There are rare cases where a relationship starts out as a financial arrangement, but after spending a long time together, she comes to think, “He’s actually a good person,” and eventually falls for him.
But those cases are truly rare. It’s not something that normally happens in an ordinary relationship.
I’m no Moguro Fukuzō, but getting into someone’s emotional blind spot probably takes real skill.
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It depends on the man.
If you want her to genuinely fall for you, you need to approach someone really young.
That may have been asking a bit much, though.
That said, if a man is attractive, being 15 or even 20 years older doesn’t matter at all.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
First of all, have you met a woman you could genuinely fall in love with?
That’s where it all starts. Your age doesn’t matter—you can usually see through sales pitches and shallow people if you’ve gained enough life experience. And yet, I’ve still been deceived, looked down on, and rejected. Being disliked is still better than feeling nothing at all. Even while struggling and wondering, “What am I doing at my age? And why is nothing working out?” you may eventually meet someone, almost unbelievably easily.
There are plenty of hurdles, including the age gap, and I don’t think it’s possible without being prepared to take risks and refusing to give up. If what you want is love that comes out with a clunk after you put money into a vending machine, then go to a sex-service establishment.
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I don’t think age has anything to do with it.
I tend to fall for people pretty easily, so I end up genuinely liking them. Also, I’m not struggling financially, so I don’t need to date someone I don’t like.
By the way, I’m in my 40s.
—Marika
I reread this after waking up, and I guess it’s more like “genuine-ish” after all.
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Age doesn’t matter, does it?
Since you’re relying on money, it’s easier to make someone like you, so you don’t need to think up some sales pitch. The moment you do that, you can’t be honest anymore…
Don’t expect anything serious. Just like each other honestly.
Isn’t that enough…?
Since money is involved, it’s easier than romance to simply be honest and genuinely like each other.
Neither side should get serious.
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In a previous question, someone said that men in their 60s tend to have bad attitudes. I’m not sure what it is, but I also feel that many of them try to assert their superiority or lecture you.
Have you overcome those issues yourself?
Then there’s personal hygiene… Dandruff, bad breath, athlete’s foot, and body odor can all be dealt with by keeping clean. Have you taken care of those things as well?
If you can at least manage that, I think someone in their 40s or 50s might still have a chance. But you prefer younger women, don’t you? If you’re willing to put in the effort, try sending offers to all the women in their 20s—you might meet someone wonderful.
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