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Feb 13, 2022 11:24
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If that’s how you feel, why not discuss it with your partner?
Once an introduction has been made, you’re free to date as you wish here, so honestly, I think the woman will probably turn you down.
Ah, what a waste of the offer fee.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Are you the person from Chiba who was told recently that you had written something strange in your profile?
If you’re going to compare it to a soapland, you might as well just go to a soapland. I honestly don’t understand why you would compare someone you met through a dating club to a soapland.
Do you also pay your girlfriend by saying things like, “It costs this much at a soapland, so H is worth this much”? If you’re married, do you calculate how much to pay your wife for H based on soapland prices? And for housework, do you figure out how much to give her at home based on a housekeeper’s hourly rate?
It’s honestly a little scary to imagine.
Instead of comparing everything to a soapland, you should just go to one.
Other
Ask him directly.
Marika
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
When it comes to an allowance, what matters most is that both people are satisfied with the arrangement.
It’s the same with soaplands: some let you have fun for 20,000 yen, while others require 50,000 yen.
Allowances work the same way. Some women are happy with 20,000 yen, while others wouldn’t be satisfied even with 50,000 yen.
Women also judge men individually. With one man, she might feel that she’d be fine seeing him without an allowance, while with another, she might find him physically repulsive even if he offered 100,000 yen.
Honestly, I think it’s too soon for you to pursue an adult relationship (intimate). Even if you offered 100,000 yen, she’d probably still find you physically off-putting. You should just stick to seeing professional women at a sex venue.
Other
If you’re comparing it to a soapland, then just go to a soapland. It’s nonsense to treat club dating and soaplands as the same thing.
Other
There’s no set market rate for an allowance; I think it’s fine as long as both people are satisfied with it.
“Two because it comes with a condom”? Going without one isn’t even an option in the first place.
So I honestly don’t understand the mindset of thinking, “It’s two because a condom is included.”
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s a very interesting question.
Whenever I talk about generous allowances, I get criticized from all sides, but I’m endlessly curious why the people who criticize me are so hostile toward questions like this.
There’s no fixed going rate for an allowance, is there?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Why should the use of protection have anything to do with the amount of the allowance?
Soapland services and dating are two different things, so I think comparing them is misguided.