To Makeo: I’m the person who asked the question in the response thread. Thank you for your answer. I offer 2 without an adult relationship, but 5 for one. However, I usually don’t feel much like having an adult relationship on the first date, so even with C-type women, it often ends up being dinner only (no intimacy). I always give the 2, but the response has been poor. Maybe I should go for A- or B-type women, but by coincidence, many of the women I’m attracted to have been C-type. Is 2 still not enough?

With a Type C arrangement, not being intimate on the first meeting is out of the question. For a Type C, offering an allowance of 20,000 yen for dinner only on the first day is an automatic no. She’s worked up the courage to come meet you, after all. No wonder she doesn’t feel like checking LINE anymore.

If you’re offering 20,000 yen for a first meeting that’s dinner only, that’s definitely above average, so the issue is probably something other than the allowance. Maybe you have strong body odor or come across as a lecturing old man—I don’t know what the reason is, but they may have decided they’re just not comfortable with you on a gut level. Why not try reaching out to women who are type B? In your case, though, there’s still a possibility that you’ll get a poor response.

In my personal opinion, it may be because there isn’t much difference between dinner only and an adult relationship (intimate). She may be comparing you with her other papas, and I think the allowance can be a major deciding factor. In your case, since you offer 20,000 yen even for dinner only, she may have categorized it—though that’s not the best word—as: for an adult relationship, she goes with a higher-paying papa, and for dinner only, she goes with you. There are probably women who receive a higher allowance even for dinner only, but she may be thinking, “Is the difference between no adult relationship and one really only 30,000 yen?” That said, if she enjoyed having dinner with you, I think she’ll contact you. Why not try inviting her yourself? Personally, I feel uncomfortable not sending a thank-you message or not replying, so I always do it right away. But some people are like that. I think you seem like a good person, so I hope things work out for you. I’m sure there’s someone who’s a good match for you.

Dinner-only for 20,000 yen is perfectly reasonable. Five for an adult relationship (intimate) isn’t a major issue either. I think the problem was that, despite being a C type, you didn’t invite her to an adult relationship (intimate) on the first day. She had put aside her embarrassment and given you the go-ahead from the very first meeting, but I think she felt her courage had been disregarded and her pride hurt, which is why she left you on read. If she’s a C type, please invite her to an adult relationship (intimate) from the first meeting. That’s all there is to it. If you’re not ready for that on the first day, have the club tell her when making the offer something like, “I understand you’re a C type, but I’m a little shy and would prefer dinner only (no intimacy) for the first meeting.” I can only judge you from this exchange, but I can tell you’re a very good person. I think things will go well with just a little consideration. Good luck!