Tips Feb 12, 2022 18:12

Is it better to avoid wearing the same outfit on my first date as in my profile photo and interview? I’m starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but I can’t afford to buy nice clothes. Also, my feet get cold this time of year, so I’d like to wear boots instead of stiletto heels. Would that also make a bad impression on my first date?

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I think boots are totally fine too. For inspiration, you might want to look at Bijin Hyakka–style outfits. They feature ways to wear boots without making your look too casual.
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I think it’s fine to wear the same outfit. You probably had your photo taken in the outfit that makes you look your best, so why not stick with it? Saying something like, “I bought this new dress with the allowance you gave me when we meet next time!” would be cute, I think. It’s cold for pumps this time of year, so boots should be fine. Shearling boots might not work at some restaurants or hotels, though.
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That’s perfectly fine. You could even wear the same suit you’d wear to a regular job interview. It’s also fine to say, “I told them I was heading to work.” Boots are okay as long as they’re sleek and streamlined. Avoid those fleece-lined, UGG-style boots that elementary school kids wear—they’ll make your legs look thicker. And try not to overdo the accessories. Good luck tomorrow. You’ve got this! Have a good one♪
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I actually see it as a positive, since I can look at the clothes in your profile and imagine things like, “She’s my type,” or “We could go to this kind of place.” It’s cold out, so boots are perfectly fine too.
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I think it’s fine to wear the same outfit. If the man likes shapely legs, he may ask you to come in the same miniskirt you wore to the interview. It can be tricky if you’re renting an outfit, though. That said, I haven’t really heard of anyone being disappointed because you wore the same clothes as at the interview. Unless he said something like, “Those jeans are a bit…” during the interview, I think you should be fine wearing that outfit.
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As long as it’s not overly flashy or obviously just casual everyday wear, I don’t really care what she wears. I’m not particularly fashion-conscious myself, after all. Boots are fine too, as long as they suit the overall look.
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I think it’s fine to use the same one. Using the same photo may be better since it won’t create a gap between your profile picture and what you look like in person.
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