A certain gross papa keeps saying he wants us to take a bath together next time, but I really don’t want to. He comes out of the shower with a stinky butt that smells like poop, with toilet paper still stuck to it (sob)
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When I told him once that he still had toilet paper stuck to him, he did wash himself—but only the paper came off, and the area around his lower body still smelled like poop (gagging)
Honestly, I don’t even want to give him oral sex.
How can I avoid taking a bath with him? Or what could I say to get him to wash himself properly with soap?
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I wouldn’t date someone like that, but if we’re assuming I did, I’d actually take a bath with him and either make sure he washed properly or supervise him. I’d also point out what he was doing wrong.
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Ugh, that sounds awful… I don’t know how you can keep seeing a man like that.
Either get in the bath with him and scrub him thoroughly from head to toe, like you’re providing personal care—or say goodbye if you can’t deal with it.
If you can smell feces, that means there’s probably some residue somewhere, even if you can’t see it. Have him brace himself and stick his backside out, rinse him thoroughly with the shower, then lather up some body wash and gently massage around the area. He might even moan and squirm.
After that, he may become completely fixated on you.
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I agree with Kazu. In your position, I think you can say it.
Ultimately, I think relationships between men and women come down to the “poop and pee” issue.
When Yujiro Ishihara was young and hospitalized, he apparently had trouble with bodily functions, and his wife, Makiko Ishihara, reportedly cleaned him up with her bare hands. After that, he supposedly could never hold his head up around her again.
It’s rare for relationships at an escort club to reach that level, and there’s no need for them to. But if you can get past the poop issue, your allowance might increase… Though I guess it probably won’t.
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I’ve taken training for the adult entertainment industry before.
Apparently, quite a few customers don’t wash themselves, so I was taught that it’s best to wash them.
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Since you’re already going to end up in bed together and he smells anyway, why not take a bath together and have him wash properly? If you teach him how to wash his butt and point things out, maybe the smell and dirt will improve a little.
Make it a rule that you don’t wash each other.
You’re really admirable for putting up with this. Hang in there.
I’m guessing he may not use a bidet, either. Just a thought, but you could try using a bath together as an incentive: “If you use the bidet every time and wash around your anus with soap every day, I’ll take a bath with you.”
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> How can I get him to wash himself really thoroughly with soap?
I think you should just tell him directly.
Say, “I can’t do it unless you wash really thoroughly.”
Apparently, there are a very small number of men who shower but don’t actually wash because they’re afraid their wives might notice.
If they’re that worried, I sometimes think they should just buy the same body wash they use at home.
Even if they throw it away after every use, it only costs a few hundred yen. That doesn’t seem like a big deal to me.
If you’re worried about getting caught, buy the same body wash you use at home near where you’re meeting.
Then scrub yourself thoroughly.
If it’s the same body wash, even if you scrub hard and still have a little of the other person’s scent on you, your wife won’t notice. And if you’re still worried, another option would be to work up a sweat afterward and not shower again.
In any case, before getting intimate, I really wish men would wash themselves thoroughly with soap when they shower.
> I don’t want to shower together. (Tears)
I don’t think you need to worry—the hot water itself won’t make you smell like the other person just because you showered together.
But if you really don’t want to, I think it’s best to simply say, “I’m shy, so I’d rather shower separately,” and stick with that.
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The fact that you’re still seeing him—either you’re very kind, or you simply don’t want to break things off with him…
Why not take a bath together and show him how to wash properly? I have a feeling he’d appreciate it!!
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Poor thing…
Was your partner Mr. Gone (allowance: 5) or Mr. Sanshiro (allowance: 3–4)?
If you’re going to be a papa (a male supporter), VIO hair removal is a must—at the very least, get the O area done.
If you’ve got hair there, toilet paper and poop team up for a double attack…
Before spending money on suits, watches, and cars, papas need full-body hair removal!
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I think you should just tell him to wash himself thoroughly with soap.
If you were able to point out the toilet paper stuck to his butt, you can do this too!
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How do you manage to keep seeing a papa like that?
If it were me, I’d end things just because my dating partner had an unpleasant smell.
I wonder if you don’t have any other papas, or if you’re putting up with it because the allowance is generous…
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