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Feb 12, 2022 15:23
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Do you mean on the questioner’s nose?
Did you make an effort to look well-groomed, as if you were going to an interview? Did you shower and wash your hair before going?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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As everyone answering has said, “I don’t want to kiss you” sounds like a spur-of-the-moment excuse that doesn’t really make sense.
Could you have bad breath? You get used to your own smell and stop noticing it yourself, so be careful.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It means he’s not okay with kissing you, for no particular reason.
If someone treated me that rudely, I’d definitely end things.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
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I don’t know what it meant either.
If she meant that her nose was stuffy due to the dry air, then it could be understood as her saying she couldn’t kiss because she’d have trouble breathing.
But do you really need to analyze what she meant?
It’s okay not to know the exact meaning.
She gave you some kind of reason—probably so you wouldn’t feel hurt—and you accepted it because you felt it wouldn’t be right to pressure her.
That’s all there is to it. You both considered each other’s feelings and accepted the situation.
I think that’s perfectly fine.
Still feel like it doesn’t add up when you think about it later? Even if you do, you can’t turn back time.
Don’t worry about the little things. What matters is making sure you can both enjoy seeing each other again next time.
Since the air is dry in winter, you could fill the bathtub with water at its hottest setting and leave the door open to raise the humidity in the room.
Even if you use a temperature that’s comfortable to bathe in—slightly hot, around 43°C—it will still produce plenty of steam. Letting the water run until it nearly overflows might work too.
But raising the humidity throughout the entire room would take time, so you could always get cozy in the bathroom instead...
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve heard countless ridiculous, inconsistent excuses (lies) from women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’ve pretended to believe them, thinking that believing someone is a form of kindness—and might even be some kind of signal.
For someone like me, this booger story is exactly the kind of lie that’s worth pretending to believe.
Next time, let’s put several humidifiers in the room and dissolve that booger, so she won’t have any excuse.
Other
I think it was probably a way of turning down a kiss without hurting you.
I don’t mean to be rude by saying this when I know nothing about you, but do you take care of your breath? Some people ask about this here, and others get criticized for it, but if someone’s breath is really bad, I’d probably want to avoid kissing them too.
It’s something that’s hard to notice about yourself.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
That cracked me up, lol.
She doesn’t want to kiss you because you’re basically a public (oral) health hazard.
I’m guessing she came up with that excuse on the spot.
Unless you go to a bad-breath clinic ASAP, next time she’ll probably say:
“My allergies are terrible, so no kissing.”