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Feb 11, 2022 23:17
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Even when a woman knows her husband is cheating with a younger woman through a dating club, she doesn’t divorce him because he’s still just as kind as ever, and she understands that he’s only borrowing someone else’s toilet, right?
I’m in a sexless marriage, and both my affairs through a dating club and at work have been discovered by my wife, but she doesn’t say anything because I generally treat her well.
As long as I don’t have children with someone else, I think we can maintain a good relationship as a married couple.
The only problem when a husband in a sexless marriage cheats is that he needs somewhere to relieve himself.
Not being able to satisfy that need is like living in a house without a toilet.
So a husband’s affair is the same as going to borrow someone else’s toilet.
If everything is building up and he can’t do it at home, it’s only natural that he’ll eventually be unable to hold it in.
Therefore, the woman he’s cheating with is neither a rival nor even a person. You should think of her as nothing more than a toilet for the husband to relieve himself in.”
Those are the words of a certain feminist. Don’t you think marriage is wonderful after all?
Women who sell their bodies in places like this are nothing but prostitutes.
Don’t you think they should realize that, no matter how many sweet words they’re showered with when they meet him, they’re merely being used??
8 answers
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
That really doesn’t sound like something a man would write.
It sounds exactly like something a wife would write after finding out her husband was doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), wanting to bash the women involved(笑)
You’ve got it backwards, questioner. In reality, most papas are the ones being used by papa-katsu girls—as ATMs.
Sweet words? They’ll just say, “Ew, serious romantic feelings are gross,” and cut ties with you.
Other
My thoughts are so impoverished that I don’t even feel like putting them into words.
Akari
Other
This really doesn’t sound like a man’s question.
If a woman can earn money on her own and live better than she does now, she’ll leave in a heartbeat.
Marika
Other
☆Aya, the medication might not work, so I’ll go ahead and inject 50 cc into your butt with an 18-gauge syringe.
Other
The person who gave that answer was Akihiro Miwa.
Calling him a feminist is such a superficial take. They probably never cared about the original source and just wanted to bash papa-katsu women—a lonely person who’s probably disliked by women too…
Here, take your meds.
👨 Male
Universe member
Are you still a teenager mentally? (lol)
> Women who sell their bodies in a place like this are nothing but prostitutes.
> No matter how many sweet words they throw at you when you meet, don’t you think they should realize they’re just being used??
I don’t think it’s quite that simple.
If things could be resolved between spouses, people wouldn’t use an escort club in the first place—and I didn’t use one for that reason either. But the world isn’t that simple.
I don’t think I’m “just using” the women I see, or that it’s merely “playing around.” Our relationship through the escort club is based on an agreement, and I provide financial support as well as anything else I can reasonably talk about or do. I also make sure to treat the women with respect.
Rather than simply quoting “something a feminist once said,” I think you should give the matter some thought of your own before posting.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Hmm, maybe the person asking is just being used to bring money in, too.
I don’t particularly think the couple is admirable.
Did posting something nasty in the anonymous question box make you feel better?
Other
I don’t really like the phrase “being used,” but everyone sees things differently, so there’s no way to know who’s actually using whom.
Maybe his wife has someone else she likes and simply doesn’t care about her husband, which is why she isn’t saying anything. Or perhaps she’s just gathering evidence to claim compensation.
Either way, if you’re enjoying the relationship, isn’t that what matters?