I’d like to receive more offers. Would it be okay to message the staff on LINE and ask them about getting more offers?
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I’m a female member who has been registered with Universe Club for about eight months.
At first, I received around 20 offers, and by around last fall, I had about 10 papas (male supporters) I was seeing regularly.
However, from the end of last year until now, that number has dropped to about five for various reasons: some papas moved overseas, some left the club after their wives found out, some stopped seeing me after I turned down their proposals for a monthly arrangement, and others have been too busy with work to meet for a while.
(I’ve also ended things with some papas because I no longer wanted to see them.)
Here’s the breakdown of the five papas I still see:
・Pay-per-meeting 1, two or three times a month (I haven’t been able to see him for a month and a half due to COVID)
・Pay-per-meeting 7, once every two months
・Pay-per-meeting 8, once every two months
・Pay-per-meeting 5, once a month, two people
The allowance I receive ranges from 250,000 yen at most to 100,000 yen at the least per month, so it varies. My take-home income from my daytime job is 150,000 yen a month.
Things have become a little financially difficult, so I went in for new photos at the end of the year because I wanted to receive more offers, but the number of offers didn’t increase.
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As I mentioned at the beginning, would it be okay to contact the staff on LINE and ask them about getting more offers?
Also, if you have any advice on things I could do that might lead to more offers, I’d appreciate hearing it.
(Sorry for the long post, and apologies if this has already been asked.)
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Yes, that’s totally fine!!
Since we don’t know who you mean, all I can suggest is sending a “You seem lovely” message to the person who caught your eye.
Please contact the staff directly!
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If you treat the staff like they’re beneath you and act arrogantly toward them, you may stop receiving offers.
I think I’ve mentioned this before, but one woman wrote something along the lines of:
“I was made to stay out on a date until 2 a.m. and wasn’t even given taxi fare. Why would you send me out with such an awful man? Are you kidding me?”
Even though that was all she said—and I could completely understand how she felt—she was labeled a complainer and hidden from view.
(The woman herself can’t tell whether she’s been hidden. I can still see her, though.)
Maybe it was because a different staff member handled her second photo shoot, or perhaps she acted arrogantly toward them.
The staff got angry and wrote something in her club comments along the lines of, “She has a bad personality and isn’t recommended.” As a result, her number of favorites kept dropping, and some women received no offers at all after their second photo shoot.
You don’t have to flatter the staff, but I do think it’s best not to upset them.
That said, I also feel the staff should be a little more tolerant. But with so many young staff members, maybe that’s difficult.
> Would it be okay to consult with the staff via LINE?
Yes, absolutely. I think most staff members will do their best when someone comes to them for advice.
If they seemed cold toward you, there’s a good chance you may have done something during your second photo shoot that rubbed them the wrong way.
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The longer you’ve been doing this, the fewer new offers you’re likely to receive.
However, if they’ve stopped completely, there may be negative feedback involved, such as a drop in your star rating.
Why not ask the staff about that first?
Also, it does seem a little odd that a man who pays 70,000–80,000 yen per pay-per-meeting arrangement only sees you once every two months.
He may be overextending himself.
You could try asking whether he’d be willing to meet once a month for 50,000 yen per meeting. That might be one way to stabilize your income.
The amount per meeting may be lower, but compared with waiting for new offers that may never come, even a small increase in your income would make both of you happy—a win-win.
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I think it would be fine to ask the staff for advice.
Try messaging them on LINE to ask how you could improve your profile.
Also, people who reply quickly on LINE are more likely to receive last-minute offers.
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I think it’s perfectly fine to ask for advice. Being proactive about things is always a good thing.
Some people don’t receive a single offer, yet you’re getting plenty. If they only want to see you once a month, though, maybe your interactions have become a bit repetitive.
If it’s someone they’ve been seeing for several years, they’d probably want to meet at least once a week.
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