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Feb 10, 2022 14:58
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I’ve met around 50 women, and only one ever asked for 80,000 yen. I’m starting to wonder whether I’m actually a more attractive older guy than I give myself credit for.
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Other
He’s probably not a handsome older gentleman, so you don’t need to worry, haha.
Marika
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s some seriously positive thinking!
I don’t dislike it.
You must be a papa (a male supporter) whom people think they could at least have an adult relationship (intimate) with.
I guess your cleanliness, body odor, and physique all pass muster.
In my case, I told them my terms (of the arrangement) upfront, and only two people said they wanted more than that—about the same number of offers as the questioner received.
Does that make me an attractive older man too?
No, no—I’m barely over the line for an “H” rating.
I’ll keep working on myself! I’m going to keep improving my cleanliness, body odor, and physique.
Other
You can become an attractive older man through good hygiene and how you dress.
If you’ve got those things down, I’d say you’re an attractive older man.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I had two pay-per-meeting offers of ¥100,000. I went through with one of them because she was a sexy actress I really liked. It was my first offer, so I have fond memories of it.
Other
I’ve never been the one to name an amount, so I’m not really sure how that works.
I’d appreciate it more if the man brought it up first, but what do you think?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The moment you make a woman state the allowance she wants, you’ve already proven you’re not a genuinely attractive older man.
You’re much more unattractive than you think you are.
If you’re a man, be the one to risk embarrassing yourself first. Very few women can actually bring themselves to state the allowance they want. Do you have any idea how embarrassing it is for them?
*That said, in mama-katsu, it’s perfectly fine to ask a young man to name the allowance he wants.*
Maybe it’s one of the good and bad aspects of this Q&A site, but women are embarrassed that they’ll be seen as money-minded if they ask for more than 5, so even when they want 7, they’ll say 5.
Why can’t you understand something that simple? Oh, right—you’re mentally unattractive too, so I guess you can’t. Sorry m(_ _)m
I’ve only asked someone what allowance she wanted once. I wanted to know just that one time what it felt like to ask, so I asked her, even though I felt bad about it.
She was a Gold B girl, and when she said “5 or more,” I made it 10. I had planned to round anything under 10 up to 10 anyway.
I tell women the allowance within the first ten minutes of dinner. Otherwise, they can’t really enjoy the meal.
Other
People who disguise humblebrags as questions are almost just as common, aren’t they? Does hearing about other people’s allowances really make you feel satisfied?