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Feb 9, 2022 15:24
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Many of the questions from women in this Q&A seem harsh and bleak, filled with “hatred toward men” and “a hunger for money.”
Honestly, it scares me...
I generally respect older men who have achieved financial success and experienced hardships in life.
Of course, there are people I don't get along with, and when that happens, I simply say goodbye.
However,
some women seem to vent their dissatisfaction as if casting a curse.
Is there some reason for this?
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Other
I agree with you.
But reading through the posts here, I do get the impression that many people are putting up with things they don’t really want to. I’m still fairly inexperienced myself, so maybe I’ve just been lucky enough to meet a good papa (a male supporter).
Even so, if you’re uncomfortable with something, you can always say no… That said, people do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for all kinds of reasons, so I’m sure some are forcing themselves to endure things. And perhaps this is a place where they can write about things they can’t tell anyone else—a place where they can ask for advice like they would with a friend. I could probably phrase that better, though…
I hope everyone can meet someone with whom they can have a mutually considerate relationship.
Other
Some women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) start to struggle with the contradiction between:
- “I hate the idea of being bought with money.”
- “But if there weren’t men who buy women with money, I couldn’t exist—or make any money.”
As a result, I think they unconsciously come to hate the papa (male supporters) who create this contradiction for them.
It can’t really be helped.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Maybe because this is the only place they have to vent?
This place has turned into a cesspool. I’m actually kind of into muddy water, but I’ve never sipped from a cesspool before. Think I can handle it? lol
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Since everyone keeps their activities private, this is probably the only place they have to vent when they’re unhappy.
Those who are satisfied or continue seeing a good papa (a male supporter) don’t come here to ask questions.
I think there are more well-balanced women like you. Most of the feedback women leave about their dates is positive, after all.
It’s fine when it’s entertaining, but since it’s anonymous and people can write whatever they want, there are definitely some who make you think, “Wow, you’re really going that far?”
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think it may be because they’re offered a low allowance or pressured into doing unreasonable things.
It sounds like you’ve found a kind, good papa (a male supporter), but I can understand why someone might end up feeling that way after meeting a papa who isn’t.