I’m a man in my 40s, right in the middle of my papa-katsu adolescence.
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I’ve been doing this for the past few years, but lately I’ve simply started to get bored.
The reason is that, when I first started, I approached it as something to enjoy like a character-development game. Don’t get me wrong, but papa-katsu women are, after all, engaging in something that isn’t exactly admirable, and I feel that the women who enter this world (as well as men, except for the elderly) are generally people with a behavioral aptitude somewhere between F-rank and around 38. In terms of their underlying qualities, no matter how hard you try to develop them, their upper limit is probably around 45, so I can no longer improve my own level as a mentor or maintain my motivation.
Next, I came to understand that this was something to enjoy as entertainment, so I started treating it like professional wrestling. But the angles have become far too obvious—in other words, we’re both terrible at playing along—so I can no longer indulge in the tasteless thought of “Isn’t this fixed?!” or even hope for someone to break the script.
At this point, I can’t maintain the motivation to continue a transactional relationship solely to satisfy my sexual urges, and I don’t feel old enough to be paying someone a nuisance fee, either. I’m truly right in the middle of my papa-katsu adolescence.
Someone once said that pleasures money can buy are never all that satisfying. Is this finally the right time to graduate?
Or did I enroll too early?
Please advise me on the right time to graduate—or enroll.
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The first two years after joining were exciting, but I can certainly understand the feeling of getting used to the stimulation and simply becoming bored as time goes by.
I can’t agree about the “behavior deviation score” because I don’t know what it’s actually based on. I’m not planning to pay to train someone, but is it really that low? At least, the women Fuu has on monthly arrangements aren’t F-rank (proud papa—or should I say papa being biased? lol).
I don’t think I joined too early. You need to be able to get properly hard, so I think starting at 40 was probably just right.
As for when I’ll graduate, maybe I will if I find something else that’s more stimulating, safer, and more fun than this club. But I haven’t found anything yet, so I plan to continue until my dick stops working. In the end, it all depends on my dick.
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“F-rank” and “hensachi” are so abstract that I’m not really sure what kind of behavior you mean.
Are you talking about manners during dates, the way she carries herself, and communication etiquette such as how she uses LINE? Or are you trying to take someone who’s bad at sex and turn her into someone who enjoys sex and has good technique?
Since you asked in terms of hensachi, I’ll answer in the same terms: why not start with someone whose hensachi is already reasonably high?
For example, try someone with a good star rating and a good reputation among the staff—or perhaps a C-rated woman around her thirties who seems to have a fair amount of experience, whether she’s good or bad in bed.
I don’t know whether “training” is enjoyable, but it takes time, and if the basics aren’t there, there’s nothing to build on. In the end, you may end up in a futile relationship and lose the enjoyment of your club activities, which would be a shame.
What you need isn’t graduation—it’s studying abroad.
I recommend making an offer to an experienced, already-polished woman.
Marika
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Nana, it does seem like you’re asking in a way that keeps people from realizing who you really are...
This may be very basic, but women are generally smarter and more socially savvy than men, right?
When you think about it, we papas are clearly the immature ones.
I’m not sure whether this counts as advice, but my goal is to give her money. Sex isn’t payment in return for the allowance—it’s just a bonus. I don’t really mind whether it happens or not.
It’s more like the moment I hand over the money is the climax, and sex is just pillow talk afterward.
Would it make sense if I said I’m trying to enjoy myself the way wealthy people do? Maybe not...
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Looks like you’re thinking about retiring as a respondent, lol.
It’s a pretty interesting question, so I’m making an appearance again for the first time in a while.
Ah, setting aside the whole “偏差値” comparison, I get what you’re trying to say. Maybe taking a break—even graduating for now—would be fine, lol.
If you ever feel like doing the “pro wrestling” you mentioned, you can always come back. And age probably plays a part too. Still, I don’t think it’s really about whether it’s early or late. Sometimes, if you don’t take the plunge when you feel like doing something, the opportunity may never come, so perhaps this was the right time to jump in.
You must have gained quite a lot from it, too.
It may be a small exception, but there are always exceptions, so I’m not ready to sum up or become detached from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) just yet, lol.
In the end, it’s often yourself who gets called into question. Things may seem like the same cycle, but they’re never quite the same, lol.
Anyway, do whatever you want, lol.
Personally, I like people who keep moving forward even while they’re still unsure, lol.
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The way you write this… you sound a lot like Make〇-san (lol).
Have you only been offering arrangements to younger women until now? Why not try expanding your dating range, even if you don’t expect much?
Try branching out beyond your usual preferences. You might be surprised by what you end up enjoying.
You only live once, so you’ve got to enjoy it♡
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Don’t be afraid of getting hurt—break the booking yourself from your side. Most of the time, the match will fall through, but occasionally it may continue.
If we’re in our papa-katsu adolescence, there are still more moves we can make. What’s holding us back is the fear of having our pride hurt and our lack of courage.
We’re not trainers—we, as papa-katsu adolescents, are always challengers.
Watch the video of Tatsumi Fujinami’s haircut incident and summon your courage.
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