I’m a 19-year-old college student interested in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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When I was in middle school, I developed acute leukemia and had a biopsy surgery that left a scar on my chest.
I’m currently in remission and have no health issues. I’m not unattractive—beautiful pageant scouts have even approached me—but would it be difficult to register under anything other than Type A?
If you’re worried about the scar on your chest, that’s completely unnecessary!
There’s actually a wonderful woman who has won back-to-back national titles in Japan in a bodybuilding-related category called bikini fitness—it’s hard to explain to people who aren’t familiar with it—and she has surgical scars on her abdomen.
She also holds seminars for female athletes with surgical scars or other marks on their bodies.
As long as you carry yourself with confidence and vitality, there’s absolutely nothing to worry about. It’s proof that you made it through difficult treatment, so I think it’s something you can be proud of.
Before anyone asks, “What happened?” just bring it up yourself.
Marika
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Even with a B, C, or D cup, you could register without a problem. To put it bluntly, people might even feel sympathetic and be inclined to make you an offer. You’d have a distinctive quality that wouldn’t get lost in the crowd.
Yuka Masuda, for example, is a cancer survivor, but she’s been quite entertaining on dramas and variety shows.
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For now, I think you should go to the interview.
At that time, it might be a good idea to ask the staff to let them know that you have a scar on your breast, but that it’s from a biopsy.
Wouldn’t you feel uncomfortable if they thought you’d had breast augmentation?
And if someone refuses to make you an offer over something as minor as a scar, they’re just a small-minded man anyway, so try not to let it bother you.
papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can be quite stressful, but I hope it won’t affect your leukemia…
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I don’t think many people would reject someone simply because they have scars.
During the interview, they’ll ask whether you have any significant scars. If you answer honestly and provide details—such as where they are and approximately how many centimeters long—they’ll be included in your profile. That way, only men who are comfortable with it will send you offers.
So you should be able to choose whichever dating arrangement type you prefer. It might be worth registering to see how many offers you receive.
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I think it might be a good idea to go to an interview once and see how it goes. They’ll probably answer any questions you have, too.
You’re still a teenager, and I’m sure there are papa supporters who’d be happy just to have dinner with a cute girl!
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There are all kinds of pageants and scouting opportunities, so I think it would be a good idea to bring it up during the interview. That’s what interviews are for, after all.
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