I’ve told him I’m not, but honestly, I’d like another papa because I need a little more allowance.
How should I tell him honestly that I need more allowance?
I feel like men would be put off if I told them the truth…
Don’t ask him to raise your allowance yourself. It’ll end the arrangement right away.
Instead, when you haven’t been able to see him for a while, try looking a little lonely and saying, “I really want you to hold me right now… Would you meet me, even just once?”
If that doesn’t work, I guess you’ll have no choice but to look for someone else.
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If it were me, I wouldn’t bring up money at all—I’d simply tell him I’d like to see him more often. If that doesn’t work, I might have no choice but to quietly look for someone else…
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I think it’s best to be straightforward.
You could say something like:
“I really am not seeing any other papas. But the allowance isn’t enough, so I was thinking about looking for another papa as well. I don’t want to put any more financial pressure on you…”
Then see how he reacts.
That said, even if he increases your allowance, I think you should still look for another papa if it’s under ¥1 million a month.
Because things can end suddenly. It’s probably best to quietly and carefully look for another papa while keeping it well hidden.
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You want another papa. So right now, you really only have one, correct?
If so, I’d be honest and say, “I need a little more money, and I’d prefer to stick with just you. Would you be willing to meet a bit more often?” Then suggest increasing the frequency of your meetings.
I don’t think negotiating for a higher allowance yourself would go very well. I haven’t tried it, so I can’t say that for sure, though. If there’s a specific reason you need the money, you could explain that… I think the best approach would be to get him to suggest increasing the amount himself.
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