I’m the person who asked yesterday about my Valentine’s chocolate being thrown away. Thank you for your answers.
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Since I gave it to him in a shallow paper bag, I could see that the chocolate had been thrown into the trash along with the bag. My papa thought I hadn’t noticed, but he just messaged me saying the chocolate was delicious, which scared me, so I blocked him right away.
If something like this happens again, I’ll try to ask about it clearly on the spot. Thank you for the advice.
Hmm…
It’s certainly inconsiderate to throw it away while the person who gave it is still there, but there may be reasons why he couldn’t take it home.
The chocolates Fuu received last year were photographed first, then eaten in the hotel room after the woman left. The box and bag were thrown away before heading home.
Afterward, Fuu also messaged her on LINE to say they were delicious.
If Fuu gets some this year, they’re thinking of suggesting that they eat them together…
If he showed his appreciation on LINE, maybe you could forgive him? That’s what I think…
And if that papa didn’t eat them, could it be because he doesn’t like sweets, has diabetes, or has high triglycerides and can’t eat sugary foods?
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Was that gentleman possibly advised by his doctor to restrict his sugar intake?
If you’ve been seeing him several times, I’m sure you already know whether he dislikes chocolate or anything like that…
“Huh? Homemade?” Maybe he couldn’t bring himself to eat it because it made him uncomfortable. But surely not… This has come up in the Q&A box many times.
I don’t think you should continue seeing someone who would throw it away where you could see and be that thoughtless.
Now, let’s find someone else.
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That must have been frightening. If it were me, I’d ask him over LINE why I’d been discarded, but perhaps you were hurt so badly that even that feels too scary… Poor thing.
Not every papa (male supporter) is that cruel. I hope you meet someone kind again.
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If that’s the decision you’ve come to, then there’s not much you can do about it.
But I’d still like to know whether he was otherwise a good person.
He was obviously in the wrong, but I feel like you could at least have told him something along the lines of:
“I actually saw you throw it away. Do you have any idea how hurt I was? I really did like you, you know. But I can’t forgive you anymore, so we’re done.”
And if he came back and apologized, you could have said something like, “I’ll forgive you if you buy me ___.”
But if he didn’t apologize or buy you anything, then I think blocking him was the right choice.
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Hmm, if they reached out to you on LINE, I feel like I might be willing to forgive them. I’d probably do the same.
That said, only if I still felt, after looking at the situation as a whole, that I wanted to continue.
Throwing it away where you could see it was inconsiderate, but you were also at fault for giving them something bothersome without thinking about how they’d feel.
Marika
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That LINE was probably the sweetest way he knew to show kindness.
Still… I’d hate to leave someone stranded there and just walk away. I think you did the right thing by saying goodbye.
You may be wondering, “Why did he do that?” But people like that probably never realize why they were blocked in the first place.
I hope you meet someone much better!!
That said, as someone who loves chocolate, I can’t forgive wasting perfectly good chocolate.
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I wish someone would ask, “I was blocked by my favorite girl, but I don’t know why. Why do you think she blocked me?” ♪
I think you made a wonderful decision. I’m sure you’ll meet someone great!
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