Sorry to bother you with a question.
I have a question about how to present myself for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
I recently turned 30, but I have a baby face and look about college age. For my profile photos, I wore my hair half-up and dressed in an elegant lace one-piece dress.
For my next photo shoot, I’m wondering whether I should continue emphasizing a cute, youthful look or try for a more mature style instead.
I feel like I’ve been getting fewer offers since turning 30...
Could you tell me what kind of image or type of woman supporters are looking for when making offers to a 30-year-old?
For those whose apparent age differs from their actual age, what do you do?
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A youthful face usually means you have cute features, so I think men will like your look even without forcing yourself to appear more mature.
If it were me, I’d get a personal color analysis, research makeup, and wear clothes in colors that suit me. I might also get a personal style analysis, since wearing designs that fit your style naturally feels right.
Also, plenty of people around 30 can easily pass for college students, but if you seem immature on the inside, people may be put off. On the other hand, if you’re mature and level-headed, you can become the ultimate combination: “young-looking on the outside, but genuinely mature on the inside.” Good luck.
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I think that’s perfectly fine.
I’ve been seeing a woman for three years who’s around 30 and looks like that. Personally, I like youthful-looking women in their 30s, though.
Why not keep your appearance youthful while making your comments sound more mature?
I prefer black hair.
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Some men may be reading this question right now, imagining what you look like as they search for you!
If you get an offer after this, I’d say you marketed yourself the right way. Looking forward to the update.
To give you a proper answer… I use SALON, so there are no photos and I don’t really have a strategy. But if I were taking photos, I’d go with a modest, feminine dress.
I’d probably wear my hair half-up, too. I imagine men who approach younger women are looking for cuteness and youthful freshness, while in their 30s, maybe they’re looking for a more mature, composed vibe. Anyway, good luck!
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Hmm...
If a man is looking for a baby-faced 30-year-old, I feel like he’d honestly just go for a 20-year-old woman instead.
So I’m not sure being baby-faced is necessarily a selling point. If you can give off a subtle, alluring vibe, I think that kind of appeal might work better.
Of course, there’s also something appealing about being a sophisticated, refined adult woman.
But even if you see yourself as refined, if that impression doesn’t come across, you may just seem like an ordinary adult woman. In that case, perhaps showing some allure would be easier for people to understand?
That’s just my impression.
Still, since I haven’t actually seen you, it’s hard to say which would suit you better.
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“Heh heh heh, tee hee. I’m going to thoroughly search for a 30-year-old, baby-faced girl wearing her hair half-up and an elegant lace dress. Heh heh.”
Are you really trying to attract offers from men like that? Are you okay?
If that’s your strategy, then fine.
But if not, get new photos taken ASAP! Run! You’re going to get caught, lol.
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I can somehow imagine the way you speak from your writing, and based on that, I feel a youthful look might suit you better. That said, people may expect a 30-year-old to have a certain calmness that someone in their early 20s doesn’t, so it’s hard to say for sure.
People who like youthful girls will probably just make offers to genuinely young women anyway.
Ideally, I think it’s best not to force anything and to naturally give off a calm, composed vibe.
Marika
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I don’t make offers based on wanting someone with an age-appropriate vibe. I’ve always preferred women who don’t come across as childish. I think facial features and that kind of overall impression are two separate things.
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