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Feb 7, 2022 10:27
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
What is it that you want?
Are you saying it’s okay for both of you to be nothing more than sex machines in a transactional relationship?
Other
If I don’t like someone enough to have a pseudo-romantic relationship with them, I end up bleeding them dry and running them into the ground, so things last longer with a papa I can feel that way about.
Everyone’s different.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> A kind of pretend romance?
Huh?
If it’s a pretend romance, I don’t think there’s anything particularly strange about it.
If you’re saying that neither a pretend romance nor a genuine relationship is for you, then perhaps papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) itself isn’t for you.
If you think all you need is H, then I think you’d be better suited to working in the adult entertainment industry.
There may be some men who only want H, but I think both those men and women would be better off going to an adult entertainment venue. Everyone has things they are and aren’t suited for. I think people are happier when they spend their time in places that suit them.
Universe Club is for people who want H, but also want to interact with each other as human beings beyond that.
The fact that they don’t list prices like “how much for H,” as some other dating clubs do, is also proof that they value genuine connections between people.
Other
Then why not quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
I’m surprised by how many people seem to have the wrong idea about it.
Other
If you can’t even pretend to be in a romantic relationship, then wouldn’t you be better off going to a paid drinking party or a brothel?
A dating club is where you get an allowance for going on dates, being affectionate, and acting like a girlfriend or mistress.
Marika
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
✕ From this side’s perspective
○ From my perspective
I just wanted to point that out.
Take a look back through the questions in the box. You’ll find quite a few posts along the lines of, “I’m seriously in love with my papa.”
That said, I do understand how you feel. I can’t imagine genuinely falling in love with a much younger woman I’m seeing either.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
In that case, perhaps the questioner’s assumptions were mistaken.
It sounds like dating clubs may not be the right fit for you, so you might be better off looking elsewhere.
Personally, I’d like to get along well with women, but I’m put off by that whole pseudo-romance thing. I’m sure there are other men who feel the same way.
Other
I hope you meet such a wonderful papa (male supporter) that you can develop romantic feelings for him!
Even if it’s not romantic, I hope you find someone you can respect.
If you’re receiving an allowance, don’t complain.
If you have a problem with it, quit and earn your own money.