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Feb 7, 2022 01:04
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s free—totally free. No extra charge needed. Just stick with the usual allowance! LOL
Other
Nice to meet you, I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Topless, if a woman came out of the bath wrapped in a bath towel, you wouldn’t have an adult relationship afterward, right? Could you really keep your composure with her naked body right in front of you? ⁝( `ᾥ´ )⁝
If it were me, and there was going to be no adult relationship, I’d keep the towel wrapped around me and absolutely wouldn’t show myself naked. It would be cruel to the gentleman…
And if I did show myself and he didn’t react at all, I’d start worrying that I wasn’t attractive enough.
But if he did get a little excited, I might just make the first move.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> The burden of taking a bath with a papa
It depends on the person.
Some women may be okay with having sex but still not want to bathe together.
On the other hand, some women absolutely don’t want intercourse but are fine with anything else.
Bathing together is probably one of those things. Some women are okay with oral sex, while others are fine with only receiving oral sex.
Everyone is different.
If bathing together feels like a burden, she would probably turn down the suggestion. So if you’ve met someone who’s okay with it, I don’t think you need to overthink it.
I doubt she’s getting in the bath with you against her will.
Other
Hello Topless,
I’m Rin, and I’m registered with SALON. I read your column.
I always assumed that taking a bath together would naturally lead to something more, so I was surprised to learn from your column that there are people who are happy with just that.
Personally, I’m more than happy to take a bath together, so it’s not a problem for me. However, I always thought that would be as part of an adult relationship (intimate), so I don’t really understand having only a bath together.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
So you’re okay with seeing her naked, but can resist having sex?
If the allowance for being shown her body is somewhere between an adult relationship (intimate) and dinner, it probably wouldn’t be too much of a burden.
But a hot-spring trip takes up a lot of time, so maybe the allowance for one adult relationship (intimate) would be reasonable.
Personally, I don’t travel with women because figuring out the allowance for situations like that is too much of a hassle.
Other
If we’re intimate, I don’t particularly feel burdened by the cost of the bath.
I’ve never experienced just taking a bath with someone who wasn’t going to be intimate, so I’m not really sure what that situation would be like.
I’ve never met anyone who could see me naked and not want to be intimate, so I honestly don’t know.
Marika
Other
Sorry, I’m a guy—Taro here (lol). Though so far, all the answers have been from men.
If we’re talking about a reasonable starting point, I’d say begin by discussing an amount around half the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate), or somewhere between that and dinner only (no intimacy) with transportation expenses covered.
When negotiating with an escort service for an adult relationship (intimate), some women may ask for an additional fee (pocket money). It’s usually “1.” So “adult relationship minus 1” might also be a reasonable benchmark.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Sorry for answering as a man.
Dinner: 1
Bathing naked together: 3
Adult relationship: 5
Dinner: 2
Bathing naked together: 4
Adult relationship: 6
I guess something along the lines of the above would be a safe answer.
It gets you excited, doesn’t it? lol
I’m kind of jealous!
Update: I saw Dai’s answer and need to correct mine. You mean a hot spring trip, right? If it’s an actual trip, the time commitment is longer, so I’d give an allowance for the adult relationship.