Tips Feb 6, 2022 19:21

He seems to want to penetrate me with my leg hooked over the railing of a high-rise hotel balcony (he’s tried several times). My body is stiff, and I get dry down there, so it’s painful for me. Do other people have desires like that too? Men from the Showa era really do have ideas that guys their own age don’t, don’t they? In both good ways and bad.

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Do they think the body can contort into any position? Is it because people like Inrin were popular back then? I’m curious and would like to understand. Also, please tell me how I can explain that it’s painful without ruining the mood!
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The hotel near Motobu Port in Okinawa, run by a beer company, has ocean-view balconies in every room. So I’d say it’s probably relatively safe for some standing intimacy by the railing. Speaking from personal experience. You can see Ie Island straight ahead. The next day, I highly recommend taking the ferry over—it only takes 30 minutes. Visit the Ie Island Distillery and enjoy an Okinawa mojito made with their amazing local rum. Any complaints can be filed after you’ve had your Okinawa mojito.
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If you put your leg up on the balcony railing, he probably won’t be able to reach you with his legs being too short—and with his penis being too short, he likely won’t be able to penetrate you either. Even if you say it hurts, he’ll probably try to force your legs apart, so tell him, “Your penis is too short, so you won’t be able to get it in.”
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That papa probably has that kind of fantasy. Fuu would like to do it standing from behind, but there’s no need to spread my legs. I don’t usually feel that way, but I do want to when I’m traveling—somewhere like Guam or Hawaii. Standing from behind on a terrace… Hawaii is perfect at night because it’s cool. Guam stays hot even at night, so you get a little sweaty (lol). I also can’t pass up standing from behind in a private open-air bath at a hot-spring inn. I’m not saying everyone from the Showa era is like that—this is just Fuu’s personal preference. Even if things get awkward for a moment, you have to tell him when you don’t like something. Otherwise, your papa won’t understand. If he keeps doing things you’ve said you don’t like, it’s time to say goodbye.
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I’ve never come across a man like that… I think it’s more likely his personal preference than something related to being from the Showa era. When turning him down, how about saying, “I’m afraid of heights”?
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I’m pretty flexible, so spreading my legs isn’t a problem, but… isn’t being on a balcony on a high floor scary? It’s more frightening than painful. I’d really rather they do it inside the room, at least. If something hurts or you don’t like it, the other person won’t know unless you tell them, so you should communicate clearly.
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Men being so unabashed about spreading your legs probably isn’t a generational thing specific to men from the Showa era. Isn’t it because spreading your legs lets them reach deeper? I think that modern, more passive men may still have desires like this, but they’re simply too nervous to act on them. Personally, I definitely wouldn’t want to put my legs over the railing of a high-rise hotel balcony or anything like that.
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I didn’t really picture high-rise hotels having windows that open. Oh, does The Prince Park Tower have balconies? I don’t like balconies in winter because they’re cold, and in summer because they’re hot. I don’t think you can express discomfort without making things awkward, but if he forces your joints apart, why not try lightly saying, “Ouch”?
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