Tips Feb 6, 2022 15:25

I’m in my late 30s and just joined Universe Club. Since this is my first time doing anything like this, I chose Relationship Type B.

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I’ve received a few offers, but honestly, do you think supporters see me as a troublesome woman? I’m debating whether to switch to Type C.
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村瀬 和歌(スタッフ)
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There may be a slight difference in the type of men you attract between dating types B and C. Rather than focusing on what others are doing, I think you should carefully consider what you want.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Since it’s not just about sex, I think Type B is a good option.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
For me, whether it’s type B or C, the first meeting is dinner only, so either is fine. However, after meeting and spending time with three women, I found that the type C women said, “I can decide whether I want to continue seeing someone during the meal after we meet.” I suppose men do the same, but regardless of the relationship type, women may also make their decision at the very beginning. If you can decide whether you want to continue seeing someone through about an hour of conversation over a meal, then type C might be fine. If you want to play it safe, type B would probably be the better choice.
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I’m currently listed as Type B because Type C tends to attract more one-time-only guys and strange men. When introducing me, the staff say I’m a Type B who leans toward C, so I’d suggest asking the staff to describe you that way as well. That said, if you can’t be available for H anytime, Type B is probably the better option.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Papas who seem like too much trouble will make an offer to C. They won’t make an offer to B. Fuu only makes offers to C. If that’s how you feel, and you’re able to decide on an adult relationship from the very first day, why not go with C?
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I like an A, or a B who leans toward A (though nobody asked).
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t think so at all. But if you feel you can make that judgment after just one date, you can simply switch to Type C.
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Whether they’re in their 30s or 20s, people who find B-type arrangements too much trouble simply won’t make you an offer, while those who don’t mind will reach out to you. So I don’t think you need to worry—just be yourself.
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You’re the one who decides what type of relationship you want, so what other people think is irrelevant. When I meet a woman who chooses type C or D even though she never intended to follow through from the start, I get angry at myself for failing to recognize her as someone to avoid.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If you received an offer, does that mean you’ve already gone on a date? With Type B, the first meeting is dinner only, and you part ways afterward. From the second meeting onward, intimacy may be possible. Men who find even that much of a hassle generally won’t offer B and will choose C or D instead. I don’t think the number of offers for B and C was all that different (though I feel C may have had slightly more), so staying with B should be fine. That said, if the reason isn’t that you’re worried about being seen as a troublesome woman, but rather that you now want intimacy from the very first meeting, then I think you should switch to C or D.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Calling Type B “a hassle” might be a bit misleading, but I prioritize offering dates to Type C women because things move faster and there’s no need to go on multiple dates.
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