Tips Feb 6, 2022 12:57

Questions about going allowance rates only come across as bragging, and the weak barking at the moon—or the long, poorly written rants that only come from being clueless—are posted over and over. I can’t help feeling that none of it offers any solution at all.

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Some people shut out every possible downside by offering that much, while others experience something resembling genuine romantic feelings thanks to a high allowance and speak about it with great satisfaction. There are also people who can enjoy a harmonious relationship even with a standard rate. Since this is ultimately an individual matter, why don’t we stop asking these tiresome questions already??
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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ジョー・ルビコン
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🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
The allowance issue? I completely understand why people are getting fed up with it. At the same time, if people are told here, “Stop bragging!” then wouldn’t nobody be able to answer anymore? I’m always bragging too—although in Joe’s case, it’s mostly bragging about my failures. It’s inevitable that allowance-related topics keep coming up. Universe is a matching site, and male members have to pay to make offers, yet when it comes to the crucial details of the relationship, they essentially refuse to act as a go-between, saying, “You’re both adults, so discuss and decide for yourselves.” Of course good things and trouble are both bound to happen. So these questions probably aren’t going away anytime soon, and honestly, I think that’s perfectly fine. The other day, I attended a study session. Lawyers are generally considered to be high earners, but apparently their median income—look it up if you’re not familiar with the term—is in the 4-million-yen range. I could hardly believe it, but the lecturers included a lawyer earning 1 billion yen a year and another earning in the 5-million-yen range, and we studied the income gap between them. What I’m getting at is that the papas (male supporters) registered with Universe are probably becoming increasingly polarized as well. Wouldn’t it be nice if we could each enjoy ourselves from our own respective positions? Let’s keep doing our best.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
That’s true, but since it’s what people are most curious about and want to know, I suppose the same questions keep coming up. The people answering may be responding to similar questions over and over, but the questioners are constantly changing. There’s also a tendency for posts that steer people toward higher allowances to get lots of likes.
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They may be bragging about getting a generous allowance—or they may simply be making it all up. You shouldn’t take everything people write at face value. Don’t let yourself be fooled by lies.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Wouldn’t it be better to avoid these tiresome questions? It’s like saying we’ll intervene in every armed conflict around the world—wars, civil wars, and the like—using force of our own, with the goal of eradicating war. It’s the same kind of contradiction contained in the phrase “using force for peace”…
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I agree.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Asking, “Shouldn’t we avoid it?” means you’re already engaging with it. If you really want this topic to disappear, the best thing is for people like you to stop paying attention to it.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It may be going too far to say that no one would visit this Q&A site anymore if discussions about allowances disappeared, but it would certainly decline. From an SEO perspective, there’s hardly any topic more valuable than allowance-related content. The reason I haven’t been fired as an answerer is that I’m a valuable asset to Universe Club. I’m an unpleasant person, and they probably fear the backlash, but I’m sure President Kida thinks, “From an SEO standpoint, there’s hardly anyone more useful than this.” In fact, my answers about allowances sometimes get an unusually high number of likes. Allowances are a guaranteed hit. It’s like Kei Komuro was not long ago. To TV talk shows and weekly magazines, Kei Komuro was practically a god because he helped boost circulation. In other words, you could say I’m the Kei Komuro of this site. Also, I often think it would be more interesting if there were a “dislike” button. Some answerers who consider themselves the “true orthodox” type might get flooded with dislikes, which could be entertaining.
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You decide what you’re comfortable offering, and you accept what you’re comfortable receiving. That’s all there is to it. It’s not for other people to judge, is it? Akari
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There’s really no such thing as a standard rate—that’s all there is to it. If both people are happy with the arrangement, that’s all that matters.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I agree.
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