I may have a basic misunderstanding about the reality of fellatio—what do you think?
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In practice, fellatio and ejaculating in the mouth are pretty much inseparable, right?
Ejaculating in the mouth and swallowing aren’t necessarily the same thing, though…
(Personally, it’s a huge turn-off when it gets spat out.)
Huh…
If you’re putting things into categories, then maybe so, but just because I gave him oral doesn’t mean ejaculating in my mouth and swallowing is an option. You’ve been watching too much porn.
If anything, after oral, I’d rather have him penetrate me and finish inside.
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That’s a misunderstanding. Many people don’t consider a blowjob to mean ejaculating in their partner’s mouth.
If she says she’s okay with it, then sure, but many women dislike it. And swallowing? That’s something you’d only expect after watching too much porn. It’s pitiful just imagining it.
You say you lose interest when you don’t think about your partner, but if you’re enjoying yourself, wouldn’t it be fine to pull out and spit it out? Even in a serious relationship, swallowing seems like a lot to ask.
If there were a woman who said, “I lose interest if you won’t drink my urine,” could you do it?
You need to be careful with papa-katsu. If you do something your partner dislikes, she may end the arrangement.
If you absolutely insist on ejaculating in her mouth or having her swallow, then either find a woman who’s okay with it (there may be someone if you offer extra allowance), or go to an adult entertainment service.
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You have a basic misunderstanding.
They’re not the same thing. The fact that you were able to clearly distinguish them in your question—with “blowjob” and “finishing in her mouth” being separate terms—shows that virtually everyone, including you, understands that they’re different acts.
I’m glad the misunderstanding has been cleared up.
Even if someone agrees to a blowjob, that doesn’t mean they’ve agreed to finishing in their mouth.
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I don’t receive blowjobs, but I think the questioner’s opinion is based on a misunderstanding.
Even in porn, which helped make blowjobs more common, ejaculation in the mouth after a blowjob happens only once at most in a single video, right?
Normally, I think the sequence is a blowjob followed by penetration.
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A blowjob and finishing in someone’s mouth aren’t the same thing. If you’re that eager to finish in someone’s mouth, go to a sex industry establishment.
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I think anyone who says, “You’re giving me a blowjob, so of course I’m going to finish, right?” is incredibly lacking in kindness and consideration.
Why don’t you try swallowing your own sometime?
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I didn’t think it was an all-in-one arrangement.
As foreplay, I please the man orally. I’m willing to let him finish, so I do my best, but he holds back and then we move on to penetration.
Or sometimes I do it after we’ve finished and I’ve taken a bath. If I’m on my period and can’t accommodate him otherwise, I’m prepared to swallow.
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