Tips Feb 5, 2022 16:44

I feel like women in poverty ultimately have no options besides papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), sex work, or hostess jobs.

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No matter how beautiful a girl is, she won’t be chosen if she comes from a bad family. She can’t be happy.
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I can’t speak for the sex industry or hostess clubs, but at least in my experience working as staff here, I’ve never once thought that family background had anything to do with whether someone received an offer.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Most of what we believe about the world is just perception. The moment you lift your head, the second half can begin at any time. The things you regret leaving undone are also the things you never tried. So lift your head, run onto the pitch for the second half, and go for the goal—even if you’re clumsy. Then, teammates who send you great passes may show up.
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“Won’t I be chosen if I come from a bad family background?” Are you talking about marriage? Comparing yourself to others and making pessimistic assumptions are the gateway to unhappiness.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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I’m not sure what you mean, but I think there are various options. If working for a company isn’t working out for you, starting your own business might be a better fit. These days, some people also seem to be living self-sufficiently in the countryside.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you work hard at a regular job, you can earn a decent amount of money. Happiness is something you feel in your heart, so money alone can’t solve everything...
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Your family background doesn’t matter. Elegance can be learned over time, and it’s useful beyond papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). When you’re out, try imitating people who seem refined. Keep your legs together when sitting, don’t rest your elbows on the table while eating, lightly place your left hand alongside your plate, keep your mouth closed while chewing—these are all things anyone can learn to do naturally. In a year, you can transform yourself into a real young lady. Start practicing today.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I sincerely hope you don’t end up matching with Ghosn, at the very least...
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Your family background may matter in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or the hostess industry, but it shouldn’t matter in adult entertainment, right? To put it bluntly, the fact that you’ve come to believe those are the only three ways you can make money may itself be an influence of your family background.
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カズ
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There are women who find happiness through working, too.
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だて◎ゆめ
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That’s not true! Rather than settling for a regular salaried job, I think you should become an entrepreneur. It’s challenging, but the path is open to you. Build your skills and keep pushing forward!
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Does family background matter? Is it about refinement or something? Instead of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), sex work, or working in the nightlife industry, why not look for a regular job? I think you can be happy that way.
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