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Feb 5, 2022 15:55
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I went from 50 kg at 165 cm to 47 kg, and I thought I looked slimmer overall—but is that only a slight difference from his perspective?
We had a date yesterday. While we were apart, I worked hard on my skincare and hair care, so my skin and hair were both silky smooth. I dressed up and headed there feeling so excited, thinking, “I’m always cute, but today I’m even cuter!” But papa reacted the same way as usual, and I was really disappointed...
From a man’s perspective, is losing 3 kg really not that noticeable? My waist and hips are clearly slimmer, though (T ^ T)
11 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
The papas you meet through new offers from now on will probably compliment you by saying things like:
“Your waist is so slim.”
“You look really good.”
However, even if the man you’re dating thinks, “Has she lost weight?” he probably won’t say anything because he lacks confidence.
Sometimes, you may think you’ve lost weight, only to find out you’ve actually gained some.
So it’s better to say, “I worked hard for you and lost 3 kg.”
Then he’ll probably realize that it wasn’t just his imagination—that your waist did seem slimmer than before—and share his thoughts.
Other
Haven’t you gotten so thin that you’ve lost your appeal?
I’m no Mr. Mac, but isn’t this the gateway to an eating disorder?
Marika
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
At 165 cm and 50 kg, you’re already slim enough.
If you got down to 47 kg, I’d worry you might be too thin and that I’d feel your bones during intimacy.
You might be surprised how many men actually prefer women with a little more curves.
But honestly, sorry—I probably wouldn’t even notice if you told me you’d lost 3 kg…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I wouldn’t bring up sensitive topics like a woman’s weight or figure unless she asked me about them first.
👨 Male
Universe member
Oh! Yesterday?
Maybe… though the height is a little different…
Actually, I was told the same thing yesterday too(笑)
I’d noticed she might have lost a little weight, but I didn’t say anything in particular(笑)
Then, out of nowhere, she asked, “How did I look?” So I just replied, “You looked great!”
Looking back, I probably should’ve complimented the results of her efforts a bit more.
I feel a little bad about that!
Other
I once made a bet with my boyfriend that if I didn’t lose 3 kilos in two months, I’d have to pay a ¥1 million penalty.
I did lose the weight, though(笑)
But it was tough… You worked really hard too, questioner.
It may be hard to tell right now since it’s winter, which is a shame after all your effort. If you keep the weight off, people will probably notice once you start wearing lighter clothes.
That said, don’t ask for a reward on top of your allowance, okay?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
BMI: 17.26
Since your healthy weight is 60 kg, that would be considered medically underweight. As you get older, you’ll probably become wrinkly.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s great that you’re taking care of your skin and everything. You might have a papa (a male supporter) who’s a bit dense and won’t notice unless you actually tell him, “I worked hard and lost weight for you,” or “I’ve been taking good care of myself.”
That said, men don’t necessarily like women to be as thin as women often assume—it’s all about balance.
Based on your height and weight, I think you’re already slim enough and don’t need to lose any more.
Your papa (a male supporter) may feel the same way.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Since I’m known as the Hikomaro of the papa-katsu world—including my body type—if you lost even 3 kilos at that height and weight, I’d notice instantly and praise you with wildly over-the-top enthusiasm.
I’d have you stand by the window and say, “Wow♪ You worked so hard♡ Would you mind doing a little twirl?” Then we’d have a full-on praise session.
Compliments are free, and the girls would become even cuter with more praise, so I wish everyone would compliment them more.
For someone who looks like Carlos Ghosn, refusing to compliment girls too—what on earth is he fighting with as his weapon? I honestly can’t understand it.
Other
It’s amazing that you worked so hard for your papa (a male supporter).
Losing three kilos is a big deal for a woman, isn’t it? It might not seem like much to men, but you really put in the effort!
I’m sure your hard work will pay off, and maybe other people will approach you too!
It feels so good when someone tells you you’re cute, doesn’t it? When a guy suddenly says, “You look beautiful,” during a meal or some other casual moment, I’m absolutely thrilled—I blush and get so happy!
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not good at that kind of quiz.