Tips Feb 5, 2022 15:47

If they ask during a Universe interview whether I’ve ever registered with a dating club, is it safest to say, “This is my first time”?

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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’m really not concerned about that, so I think it’s fine to be honest with me. I’m only asking so I’ll know what to say if a man asks. If anything, things like your number of previous partners and what kind of person you’re looking for are more important.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I want you to be honest, but if you’re determined to lie, I won’t stop you. Just make sure you stick to your story so you don’t get caught. If you come clean halfway through, it might actually make them angry.
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Some clubs prohibit registering with multiple clubs, so please read their websites carefully. It’ll be written somewhere. I believe lies will eventually be found out by the men, so I answer honestly.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Even if it’s not your first time with C, Fuu doesn’t view it that negatively. Things I’ve seen in profiles include: “I registered on the app, but couldn’t meet a good papa,” or “I broke things off with my previous papa and decided to register.” In fact, that can make it seem like you understand papa-katsu, so you may still be considered for an offer. If you’re targeting a romance-oriented papa and are prepared to stick with a lie, then say it’s your first time. But if you don’t think you can keep lying and want to find a papa who understands seeing multiple people, there’s no need to say it’s your first time. Think about what kind of arrangement you’re aiming for and respond accordingly.
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I wonder about that too. Maybe people prefer someone new to this because they seem less jaded? I’m not good at lying, so I end up being honest about everything. I feel like it leaves a worse impression if someone later realizes I wasn’t telling the truth.
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