This is a follow-up to my question about finding first-time dinners difficult.
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I’m the person who posted this question. Thank you very much for all the responses.
I’d like to ask another question.
I have no problem going out for a meal from the second meeting onward, but for a first meeting, I feel hesitant about making a reservation when I have no idea what the other person likes. It seems better for both of us to have tea first, ask about their preferences, and then go for a meal.
How do you decide where to go and what to have for a first dinner?
Do the staff usually help coordinate between the two of you by asking what kind of meal would be suitable for the first meeting?
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I check out the women’s profiles.
After that, I usually go with either private-room yakiniku or a hotel buffet.
Both probably have their pros and cons, but I’ve never had anyone openly object to either.
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Sorry, I don’t know enough about Universe Club to answer.
The way someone chooses a restaurant really shows their sense of style, doesn’t it? Even at a nice place, people notice things like how you choose from the menu. I think a lot of women pay attention to that.
You seem like a kind person. I hope things work out for you—good luck!!
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In my case, they referred to my profile and had the club confirm and coordinate the meeting venue, such as a restaurant.
Everything went smoothly, and we proceeded to the meal as planned that day.
If you’d prefer just coffee or tea, I think you should ask through the club when making the offer whether that would be okay, and have them confirm it with him.
The club initially says “dinner,” but I think what they really mean is, “Make time to talk things over.” So I think it’s fine to have a good conversation over tea.
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Are you sure they’ve actually looked at your profile? There’s a section for your dining preferences.
Since you’d prefer to start with coffee or tea, I think you should let the staff know that.
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Most women list their preferred foods in their profiles:
Japanese food, sushi, Western food, meat, and so on.
Fuu usually reserves a private dining room that matches those preferences.
Some women may be expecting a meal, so why not just write exactly what you have in mind?
For example:
“We’ll meet at a café, but please let me know what kind of food you prefer.”
Or something along those lines.
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Is the person asking the question Seattle (i.e., that creepy old guy who can’t get women), or am I?
Private-room yakiniku is always a safe bet. I’ve never met a woman who doesn’t like Korean BBQ.
As long as you don’t eat the rice, you won’t gain weight, so she’s very unlikely to object.
You seem to have money and a nice personality, so you could always make Aya a reverse offer and let her “train” you (and squeeze you for all you’re worth). That might be the quickest way to go.
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