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Feb 3, 2022 16:48
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They send photos taken directly with their smartphone camera, without using any apps, so you can see every detail of their skin. Their faces, which I usually try not to look at, suddenly appear huge on my screen, and I end up thinking, “Oh... so this is what he looks like...” Being reminded of their full-on older-guy vibe makes me want to die for some reason.
Lately, with the coronavirus keeping them stuck at home and bored, more of these men have been refraining from going out, and the selfie rate has gone way up.
Please tell me how to stop this. I don’t want them. And I don’t understand the attitude of “I sent you one, so you should send me one too” at all... Please help me. What should I do?
5 answers
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you hate it that much, just end things.
But if you’re continuing because you want the allowance, why not delete the selfie photos as soon as you open LINE?
They won’t know that you deleted them.
Other
Next time, let me teach you the secrets to taking great selfies. You might look a little more handsome.
If you really don’t like him that much, why not just say goodbye?
Other
There are quite a few older guys who send selfies, aren’t there?
When that happens, why not try messaging, “It’s COVID, so put on a mask! lol” They might start sending selfies with their masks on.
It’s at least a little better when the bottom half of their face is covered, right?
Other
Some people really do send selfies, huh! He must trust you—almost like a boyfriend…
Instead of commenting on the photos he sends, why not send him lots of boring pictures yourself? Since you probably don’t want to send selfies, you could make it a series of random things you find lying around on the street. Or send photos of things you want in a “things I want right now” series.
It actually sounds kind of fun! Good luck!
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
There really are people who send that kind of thing, huh? (笑) The world is a big place.
I think you should just tell them you don’t need it.