Aren’t men who make their wives work part-time even though they can afford not to ashamed of themselves?
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I’m a black-listed female member.
There are also plenty of low-paying papas (male supporters) who offer “Carlos Ghosn” (allowance 5), and I was surprised by how many men make their wives work part-time at a supermarket or do some kind of clerical work even though they have plenty of money.
When I ask why, I often hear things like, “When she needs money for shopping or travel, she feels bad having to tell me—the husband—why and ask me for it,” or, “Maybe they don’t talk as a couple and want to spend less time together.” It makes me sad to hear.
I can’t help thinking, “Don’t make your wife do that. Give her enough living expenses and let her live comfortably.”
The men who say those things seem to be the ones splurging on cars, golf, clothes, and so on themselves.
I find myself thinking, “I bet their wives are putting up with a lot,” or, “I bet they regret marrying someone like that.” It makes me want marriage even less, haha.
And when I talk to men like that, they often say or do things that make women uncomfortable.
On the other hand, male members who let their wives be stress-free stay-at-home wives are, across the board, calm, kind, and offer generous (well-paying) allowances.
Even if they’re no longer intimate with their wives, or the men are free to play around, or perhaps their children have grown up and moved out and the marriage has gone cold despite being held together by the children, I imagine they must be giving their wives enough money to accept all that, haha.
Men who make their wives struggle financially or pile on the stress are proving their own lack of provider skills. Don’t they feel empty living like that????
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Being a housewife feels suffocating, apparently.
She says that if she doesn’t work, she feels isolated from the outside world and wants to stay connected to society.
That said, becoming a full-time employee would mean taking on too much responsibility, so part-time work feels just right for her.
I tell her she could just do what she enjoys without working, but…
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Whether working is a bad thing for someone’s wife is something only the people involved can know.
I don’t think it’s right to make assumptions about that.
If the person asking wanted to be a stay-at-home wife, but her husband forced her to work, then I think she chose the wrong partner.
People have all kinds of different values, and some may want to stay together even if it means struggling financially.
I hope we can all become more accepting of different ways of thinking.
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You really don’t want to work that badly??
Normally, wouldn’t you want to work or stay involved with society…?
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Even among the “blacklisted” female members, the girls who don’t care about their allowance are really cute. It’s all about…
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What’s wrong with earning your own spending money? Don’t you get tired of just lounging around at home? Your face is going to get slack.
Is relying on other people’s money really the only thing you’re capable of?
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Then can’t you just say, “I don’t need this allowance, so give it to your wife”?
I’ve actually been told that before: “That money should be spent on your family, not on me.”
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Thank you for using Carlos Ghosn! ♪
If I keep repeating “Ghosn, Ghosn,” Mr. Maezawa will eventually get angry with me, so I’d really appreciate it if the questioner could use it instead.
※Please use “Mr. Five” as well. m(_ _)m
I feel bad saying this after you used Carlos Ghosn, but I honestly think being a full-time housewife—especially a full-time housewife with children—is the hardest job in the world.
I’d absolutely hate it. I’d go insane.
It would be a different story if her husband gave her a huge allowance and was an incredibly devoted husband. But there are countless pathetic men even worse than Ghosn who say, “I’m the one putting food on the table, you know?” Women who can’t earn their own money are in for a very difficult life.
That’s why, even if it feels like none of my business, I thoroughly teach my aces how to make money. I keep drilling it into them: “Never, ever let a man lord it over you!”
And finally, thank you again. To the questioner: thank you so much for using Ghosn!
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Thinking that it’s pitiful for someone to work outside the home is itself a poor and pitiful way of thinking.
You believe it’s better to spend your whole life relying on money earned by someone else, don’t you?
People who have no skills for making money have no choice but to live that way. How pitiful.
And here’s another terribly misguided, pitiful assumption: being a housewife is hard. It really is.
Even so, you don’t come close to the working women out there who take on work in addition to everything else.
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