Tips Feb 3, 2022 10:44

What are some things I can do for the woman I’m dating?

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For example, how much financial support is appropriate?
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If a woman told you she needed 100, could you afford to give it to her? When it comes to money, everyone’s situation is different, but I think you should simply and casually give her an amount that allows her to live comfortably. Also, don’t use the fact that you’re giving her money to lord it over her.
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Everyone has different expectations when it comes to how much support they’d like, so I think the best thing is to ask your partner directly. Personally, I don’t think it’s a good idea to give so much that they start thinking, “I guess I don’t need to work anymore!” It would be one thing if you planned to support them for the rest of their life, but that’s rarely realistic. I think it’s best to stay within an amount that won’t disrupt their life.
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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There’s an art to giving someone money. I’ve been treating women for decades, so I’m used to it. But the larger the allowance, the more important it is not to make her feel indebted or obligated. That’s the absolute basics. Aside from the allowance, I’m good at starting businesses, so if a woman has an entrepreneurial dream, I support her and give her highly specific advice—including customer acquisition. I genuinely enjoy it too. If it’s only about giving a large allowance, it can start to feel like I’m seeing her solely because of money, and that’s something you should never do. That’s precisely why I’m selective about who I give substantial allowances to. Looks and physical compatibility are important, but more than anything, the women who have dreams and work hard toward them become my “aces.”
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Every woman is different, so rather than asking complete strangers, talk to her directly. A woman’s profile may list what she’s looking for in a man, along with her priorities regarding looks, support, and personality. Even then, everyone is different. In other words, when you look deeper, it all varies from person to person and from one situation to the next.
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Lol, is he a senior who’s just terrible at treating someone? Handle the bill discreetly and smoothly. Even if he says, “I’m paying today, so bring me the check,” it makes everyone else feel awkward. So if he wants to be smooth, he should just give a large amount of support unilaterally.
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At first, it may be nothing more than “not making the other person uncomfortable” and receiving an allowance. But as the relationship deepens, the papa himself can become an indispensable presence who adds richness to your life. You sometimes see posts on Q&A sites about women who’ve developed genuine romantic feelings for their papa, and I think the relationship can deepen more and more as long as both people are considerate of each other. As for the amount, it depends on the woman, so the only way is to ask and see how it goes.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
At the very least, you should provide enough for her to support herself. If you can’t do that, then you have no choice but to end the relationship. Beyond that, I suppose it depends on how much affection and compatibility there is.
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