Tips Feb 1, 2022 23:12

Would you be happy to receive something from a woman on Valentine’s Day?

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Or, when it comes from someone in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), would some people rather she didn’t give them anything because they might not be able to take it home or might feel pressured to give something in return? I want to give something to my favorite papa (a male supporter), but he’s limiting his carb intake, so sweets probably aren’t a great idea. We haven’t done anything special for occasions before, so would it be better not to do anything this year either...?
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Fuu can’t be taken home, so I’m happier with gifts of actions rather than things. I answer this whenever someone asks what kind of present I’d like: “I’m your present—do whatever you want today,” or “You can do it one more time,” or “You can do it from behind,” or “I’ll give you lots of oral,” Hearing things like that would make me happy.
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How about inviting her to lunch and treating her just once?
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I also try to limit my carbs, but things are stable now, so I’m fine with having a cheat day. Even when I’m on a date with a woman, I generally try to avoid carbs—but then we end up at a hotel drinking sake and eating cake, haha. Personally, I’d be happy with something like snacks we could enjoy together.
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紙ひこうき
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Since I already got chocolate, I realized that getting it a little early is actually pretty nice. If it’s around the actual day, I end up wondering what to do with it, when to eat it, or how to get rid of it…
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I’m Taro, a male member. I think you should give it to him. At the very least, he’ll appreciate the thought. Even if he’s watching his carbs, a small amount should be fine, shouldn’t it? Besides, as long as you don’t tell him he has to eat it right there, he can figure out what to do with it himself (speaking from experience). Exchanging messages like, “Thanks! It was delicious!” was fun and helped bring us closer. I believe gifts aren’t about giving someone a “thing”—they’re about giving them your feelings.
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フラグメーカー
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’d be really happy! I’d be like, “Yay! I’m so happy!!”
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Chocolate, gummies, gum—anything is fine, lol. I’m honestly happy when someone tries to do something nice for me! I’d say I feel more grateful than bothered. It makes me happier than when someone holds back and does nothing, so why not give her something?
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I think something small would be fine. If they’re cutting back on carbs, how about high-cacao chocolate?
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