My guess is that he either hid his profile or took a break from—or left—the service.
He may have hidden his profile from you, or perhaps enough papa (male supporter) offers came in and he reached his goal, so he decided to take a break or quit.
There could also be some personal reason, such as concerns about being recognized, getting a girlfriend, or getting married.
Try asking him directly whether you’re still considered a dating partner.
I hope he hasn’t blocked your messages. Even if he has, don’t let it get you down—move on to the next offer.
I understand wanting to see the profiles of women you’ve been matched with.
However, this isn’t a zoo, and I don’t think they want their profiles to remain visible indefinitely.
From reading the Q&A, I suspect she told the staff to hide her profile from every man she had gone on a date with.
Going forward, I recommend not worrying about the profiles of women you’ve already gone on dates with.
Wouldn’t it be reasonable to assume that it’s been hidden?
For male members below the Platinum tier, profiles are made public starting with Black members when they’re updated—for example, after confirming that the arrangement is continuing—so they may not be visible for a few days.
It’s Taro here.
You hit it off and made plans to meet this week, but then haven’t contacted her since? That’s not good. You should find little reasons to stay in touch, figure out her rhythm, and make an effort to get on the same wavelength. Even if you think things are going well, don’t let your guard down.
As for disappearing from the member list, I can think of three possibilities: (1) she lost motivation and either quit or hid her profile, (2) she specifically hid it from you by name while remaining visible and accepting offers from other members, or (3) she got too many offers and hid it from everyone. In case (3), I think people who had already sent her an offer may still be able to view her profile.
A woman I’d previously sent an offer to once messaged me on LINE saying, “I’ve hidden my profile for personal reasons,” but I could still see her normally. Later, she must have made it visible again, because “Re-register” appeared on the top page. So in your case, I think it’s probably either (1) or (2).
If you said something like “I want you all to myself” when you met the other day, then (2) is a possibility. Or maybe she’s experienced, or someone gave her some advice, and she’s doing it as a precaution. But if it’s (2), at least she still has the motivation to continue, so I don’t think you need to worry too much—you’ll probably be able to see her again.
If you can’t think of anything that would have caused it, you should suspect (1). And (1) is bad news. There’s a high chance you won’t be able to meet again. If you don’t want to regret it, give every interaction your all, as if one mistake could end everything. If you think you messed up, send an apologetic LINE message that same day. If she doesn’t reply soon, you’re probably out.
If you can make it through about three months, things will probably settle down after that. That’s how dramatically her attitude will change. Actually, I mean, that’s how dramatically the woman’s attitude changed in my case, lol.
In my case, the apology message was also a confession message at the same time, lmao. What the hell am I doing at my age, you shithead? (Talking about myself.)
Best of luck, poop♪
