The man I met recently apparently intended to have unprotected sex for just ¥30,000 or ¥40,000 per meeting. Isn’t that outrageous?
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Of course, I turned him down.
He was in his 50s and it was our first time meeting.
Are there really girls who would do that for so little?
If we were to do it without protection, I’d first have him get tested for STIs, including things that don’t show up on standard tests, such as mycoplasma. I’d also expect him to cover the cost of the pill and around ¥20,000 in hospital testing fees, separately from the allowance.
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You were seriously undervalued. Saying it here won’t change anything, so go tell him directly!
Although I’m sure you vented here because you can’t actually say it to him.
My condolences.
Marika
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You wrote that you’d agree to unprotected sex for that amount, but does that mean you’d be okay with it depending on the money?
If you were to become pregnant or contract an illness, you’d be the one bearing the consequences.
As Tetsu-san also mentioned, testing isn’t foolproof because there’s a window period.
At the very least, both people would need to agree to have unprotected sex only with each other.
But men who use dating clubs are almost certainly lying when they say they’ll stick to just one partner, so always using a condom is important for protecting yourself.
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That man is probably addicted to sex work. He likely sees papa-katsu women as basically the same as sex workers.
Even if you get him tested, it won’t mean much because there’s a time lag before the results become accurate.
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Carlos Ghosn looking for bareback sex, with an allowance of 50,000 yen or less…?
Shouldn’t the minimum allowance be at least 150,000 yen—or rather, 200,000 yen?
Even then, I’d still recommend turning him down. There’s a 100% chance he has an STI.
Here’s a real example: I know of a male member who put a stack of one-million-yen bills in front of a woman and said:
“I’ll give you one million if you let me finish inside you without protection.”
The type of men who ask for it raw are always ⚫⚫.
They’re seriously messed up…
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Just as I don’t think it’s awful when a woman asks for an allowance of 50, I don’t think it’s awful when a man offers less than she wants.
It simply means the matching won’t work out if their expectations don’t align.
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