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Why do men at these clubs judge women based on their looks, while not caring about their own appearance or body shape?

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They all have snowman-like figures, tacky clothes, and unkempt faces, yet still act all cute and innocent....
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I haven’t met anyone who’s particularly soft or chubby yet. Even those over 50 are fairly toned. Some people eat nothing but sweets and pay no attention to their health, but since they don’t have that many years ahead of them, I feel I should have them make proper meals and insist they eat healthily.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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> Why don’t these men care about their appearance or physique? I think they start with the things money can fix.
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m not confident in my demeanor as well as my appearance, so this question hits a little too close to home. Still, I think—or at least want to think—I’m a little better than I used to be. A small number of women, led by Nana-hime, have helped coordinate my outfits. But I still haven’t really learned how to wear them well. It’s probably a matter of having no sense of style.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
There was a previous question about the respondents’ BMIs, and it seemed that most were around 21–23. I think it’s simply that the papas the person asking about tends to meet are more often built like snowmen. The reason appearance isn’t judged that strictly in men is simply because they’re the ones providing the allowance. That said, it seems men can be rejected too, so I imagine someone might get turned down if they showed up to the interview looking particularly unclean or unkempt.
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There are some wonderful men out there, too! I hope you can continue enjoying the dating club without pushing yourself too hard!
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I can only keep things going with papas who take care of their appearance, and there are actually quite a few like that… Maybe you’ve just had bad luck.
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At the end of the day, isn’t it enough if the allowance is generous? You’re asking for too much. That said, all my papas are wonderful men who keep themselves in great shape, so I guess I’m guilty of that too. Sorry. Marika
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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You just haven’t had much luck meeting the right people. Paper Airplane
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I think they believe the allowance will cover it.
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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Is your papa Carlos Ghosn (allowance of 50,000 yen or less)? Papas who offer low allowances tend to have low standards too, so that’s usually how it goes. Even on dates that don’t involve an adult relationship, I take care of everything down to my toenails. I never let my guard down—I don’t want to make even one mistake while escorting her. Winning before the battle even starts is the golden rule of papa-katsu. > Kyururun ↓ That’s cute♪
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