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Jan 30, 2022 11:48
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Sometimes I hear them say things like, “I value having a fun time more than money,” or “The allowance isn’t high, but I can make up for it by entertaining you with conversation and a good atmosphere.” From my perspective, I’m like, “Why do you assume we have to choose one or the other?”
A fun time but low allowance, or a boring time but a high allowance—it’s like the old “ung curry” question. I don’t need an ung curry man.
Obviously, if there’s a man who offers a high allowance and is also fun to spend time with, I’d choose him!
Would men want to date a woman who offers little in allowance but is boring to talk to and boring in bed?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Fuu’s monthly partners are women who are fine with that allowance, enjoy chatting with me, and still share great intimacy. I’m grateful to them.
As long as both people agree on the terms, anything goes. So, questioner, find a papa (a male supporter) who will give you a higher allowance.
Other
I’ve never had an arrangement with an allowance of 50,000 yen. Honestly, even when someone initially offers that much, it never lasts, so I feel like it’s already over before I even have to hear their excuses.
If they start making excuses, I lose interest right then and there.
Other
I’m curious about the conversation that led up to the point where the man felt he had to make excuses, lol.
If a man is constantly trying to be cheap, I can understand why a woman who’s trying to enjoy herself would feel that something is off. Of course it would kill the mood, lol.
Likewise, spending time with a woman who’s always focused on the allowance or trying to squeeze more out of him would kill the mood for a man too, lol.
“I’m only interested in the allowance. Being with you is something I put up with.” Is there any man who would enjoy hearing that?
I think the saddest thing is when both sides treat each other like fools.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you have a papa (a male supporter) who offers a higher allowance and lets you have a fun time, by all means, go with him.
By the way, if we can’t agree on the allowance, I don’t make excuses.
Instead, I’m considerate and make sure the woman doesn’t feel uncomfortable right up until we part ways.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Questioner, so close!!
× We don’t need a “Un Curry” guy
◎ We don’t need Carlos Ghosn
P.S.
The number of likes on my answer has passed 120. I wonder if the record for an anonymous question box is around 200—or even higher?
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/11357
P.S. 2
The number of likes on this question has passed 100 too. Let’s all do our best to raise our allowances♡
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think it’s something that needs an excuse, so I’ve never bothered coming up with one.
When I ask a woman what allowance she’s hoping for, she usually says 50,000 yen, so that’s what I offer.