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Jan 30, 2022 09:57
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He used to brush his teeth before kissing me,
but he doesn’t anymore.
I’m worried that bringing up his breath might create distance between us, so I’m not sure how to bring it up.
Please give me some advice.
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Other
Tell him you’re not comfortable unless you’ve brushed your teeth, and stand your ground.
He’ll probably say something like, “That’s fine with me,” but keep refusing firmly.
Marika
Other
Someone I’m pretty close with does this even right after eating.
Even a little peck makes me uncomfortable, but he keeps kissing and nibbling around my mouth until my lips are wet.
I laugh and run away, saying things like, “I don’t want to get wet,” or “You just ate!” If he still does it, I wipe my mouth with a tissue and say, “Don’t eat my lips!” But honestly, I really mean it.
These days, when we want to have a real kiss, we brush our teeth first. Otherwise, we’ve switched to light kisses.
Akari
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve gradually become used to it—but in a bad way.
On the other hand, the fact that you’ve grown closer may be why you feel able to say these things to each other.
Holding it in isn’t good for your mental health, so why not simply tell him that you’d like to brush your teeth before kissing?
You could also ask whether there’s anything he’s been putting up with. I think that could help you become even closer.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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If he tries to kiss you, lightly place your index finger on his lips and say:
“After you brush your teeth, okay?”
If you say it cutely, it might work—though it depends on your personality.