Tips Jan 29, 2022 23:11

Hello. I have a question about ratings.

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A male supporter I’m seeing told me that my rating had gone up to ★5. I’ve been telling him that I don’t have any new offers, (because if I say I do, he asks about the date details and the allowance amount being offered, etc.) ・Would people assume that a higher rating means I’m receiving new offers? ・Would male members feel uncomfortable if the rating of a female companion they’re seeing went up? ・Is hiding my page the only way to conceal my rating? ・I’m happy to have a high rating, but might men shy away from making new offers if they assume I’m meeting lots of men? I would appreciate it if you could take the time to answer. As an aside, I’m a fan of everyone who answers questions here. I always find your opinions helpful, so please keep up the great work!
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Higher ratings → I assume she must be getting lots of offers. When a woman in a monthly arrangement gets a higher rating → Having experienced it myself, I honestly feel a little conflicted.  But I figure she deserves it because she’s a good person,  and I accept it since I’m seeing multiple women too. How to hide your rating → Other than hiding it from the papa who made you an offer,  there doesn’t seem to be any way. Do you make offers to women with lots of stars? → If anything, I’m more likely to make offers to women with lots of stars.  When I’m traveling for work, my schedule is limited, so I don’t want to take a chance. Even in my home area, I’m aiming to become a second- or third-choice papa, so I make offers to women with lots of stars, knowing they’re probably good.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s true that when I see the women I’ve added to my favorites rated four or five stars, I sometimes think they must be getting a lot of offers and wonder whether I should stop sending one. These days, ratings seem to fluctuate more than they used to, so perhaps it will start to feel more natural once we get used to it. By the way, I think Taro’s calculation is off when he says that women rated four stars have met at least four people, and women rated five stars have met at least seven. The survey’s rating range is +2 to −2. For example, a four-star rating means a total of at least +4, so a woman could receive +2 from just two people and reach four stars. That would mean she has met at least two people. Likewise, five stars means a total of at least +7, so she would have met at least four people. With that in mind, I figure that even a four-star woman may not have met that many people, so I try not to worry about it too much when sending an offer. Please correct me if I’m mistaken.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Unfortunately, that seems to be the case. It’s a safe choice, but you didn’t really need to make an offer… Paper Airplane
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I’m Taro, Mr. Excessively Logical. I started paying attention to the star ratings after the details of the evaluation system were disclosed. Women rated ★4 have met at least four men, and those rated ★5 have met at least seven. When I ask them directly, most say they’ve met three men, so facts like these are important. Broadly speaking, the women registered on the site fall into two groups: those who want to make money and those looking for a relationship. If someone in the former group has a ★5 rating, I assume the market forces have driven up her going rate. If someone in the latter group is still accepting offers, that means she’s met plenty of men but hasn’t found anyone who really clicked with her. I consider all of that alongside my own sense of the different levels of male members and the segment of men who seem likely to appeal to her, based on her profile. If everything matches my expectations, that’s how I interpret it; if not, I assume there’s something you can only understand after meeting her in person. If the competition seems fierce and she gives off an untouchable, high-priced vibe, I tend to stay away. But if I like her anyway, I’ll still send an offer. There was one woman whose rating went up to ★5 after I met her. She told me a lot about what was going on behind the scenes, and I was happy that she still agreed to meet me again afterward.
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Ah, I totally get that lol. From a woman’s perspective, having more supporters could be a complicated situation. I guess it’s still better than losing them, though lol. But if you keep seeing multiple people while hiding it, you’ll have to keep piling on lies and putting in extra effort to cover things up, so you might eventually slip up. Maybe it would be better to switch to someone you can see more easily?
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Unfortunately, it seems hiding your ratings is the only option… But I understand worrying that the man might find it strange if you suddenly hide them. I believe the rule was that we’re not supposed to reveal the number of stars, but men who can’t keep things to themselves aren’t very trustworthy. ☆ If a woman’s rating is going up, I assume she’s receiving new offers. ☆ When a woman’s rating goes up, I feel uncomfortable because I assume she probably has lots of other papas (male supporters). ☆ The only way to hide your ratings is to make them invisible. ☆ When I see someone with lots of stars among the new offers, I wonder what a wonderful person she must be and want to meet her. That’s how I feel—as a man.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I keep a close eye on new reviews of women I’m thinking of ending things with. When their star rating goes up, I start fading out. There’s a good chance they’ve found an ideal papa. So if there’s a man you’re interested in, I’d recommend hiding his profile.
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I’m sorry, but I can’t answer questions about ratings for ★ because this isn’t Universe Club. That said, I felt compelled to comment because you seem like such a kind person. It sounds like everyone is saying that a ★5 is a wonderful person! I’m sorry I couldn’t be of any help, but your kind words made me happy. Thank you!
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I take it that changes in your rating mean you’ve received a new offer. I don’t feel bad when my rating goes up, but it does make me curious about what the other dates are like. I believe the only way to hide your rating is to have your profile hidden from that particular man. As long as there are plenty of stars, I don’t worry about it and continue accepting offers. Thank you.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
He’s definitely the type who can’t keep his mouth shut. If it were me, I’d back off from a five-star rating, assuming she’s probably getting flooded with offers. I’m aiming to be a woman’s number one and have her all to myself.
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