What do you mean, you “forgot” to give me my allowance?
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The allowance is the main point of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and the men are supposed to be meeting women with the allowance in mind too.
There are so many men with terrible excuses.
Do you secretly think of women as your underlings?
You think we’re the kind of people you can treat carelessly and still get away with it, don’t you?
There’s no respect to be felt—
not in your attitude, and not in the allowance either.
Go die once and come back. o(^-^)o
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Assumptions and facts can be two different things, but when you have a strong victim mentality, you tend to interpret the other person’s actions as malicious.
You’ll only make yourself unhappy if you expect someone to behave exactly as you want or hope they will.
I wish you happiness.
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I agree that “I forgot to give you your allowance” is a standard excuse used by people who did it deliberately.
If I genuinely forgot to give someone their allowance, I’d be so embarrassed that I probably couldn’t continue with this kind of arrangement.
Besides, if I were treating a woman carelessly, I’d feel bad and end things with her.
So if that kind of man is your papa (a male supporter), the best thing to do is for you to end things with him first.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Is saying, “Did you forget my allowance?” really so harsh?
If you’re unhappy, just end things. Don’t push yourself so hard—find a way to earn money outside of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
If you treat a woman who’s popular with other papas like a subordinate, she’ll be the one to cut you off. That’s why I treat her with care and respect.
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At my age, I forget things—like I’m either one step away from dementia or already one step past it. I’m really sorry m(｡>__<｡)m
That’s why I give the allowance before we meet so it doesn’t end up being forgotten that day.
If bank transfers are okay, I’ll just transfer two or three payments at once. For those who don’t accept transfers, I give them the allowance for the next meeting when we’re saying goodbye.
I don’t worry about the mood or how I’m feeling. I keep them separate: “The allowance is the allowance, and the mood is the mood.”
By the way, isn’t the questioner’s papa (a male supporter) Carlos Ghosn—the one with an allowance of five or less? Surely some people like that don’t just forget to pay; part of it is probably intentional.
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