Isn’t it kind of painfully funny that older men call it an “adult relationship,” while women in papa-katsu don’t see it that way at all and call it “manual labor” because it’s physical work?
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How can a married man seriously fall for someone and convince himself, “She must be into me”? Just because his kids are grown, he and his wife no longer have sex, and he’s bored, he uses one young woman after another to satisfy his sexual urges, then acts like everything is fine in his marriage. It’s disgusting, and I wish they would stop. Does this mean that we women in papa-katsu are being used to satisfy men’s sexual urges and make their family lives look harmonious? I want to die.
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If you’re treating construction work as simply physical labor and doing it for the money, then who cares what the other person’s family situation is, whether you’re just there to satisfy their sexual needs, or whether they’re mistakenly thinking they like you?
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There are a lot of harsh opinions out there, but personally, I’m more inclined to respect the papa-katsu girls who earn their money through physical labor—or by putting up with things and working hard.
They’re only seeing kind papas, getting a generous allowance, and never having to do anything unpleasant. Does that really happen? lol
That’s just their situation “now.” In the past, they must have done physical labor. I think the effort they put in back then is what led to where they are now.
I want to support papa-katsu girls who earn through patience and hard work. Because if I were a woman, I’d probably be that kind of papa-katsu girl myself. You could even say that money earned through enduring things is a more legitimate way to make a living. That’s why they can keep things transactional.
Am I the only one who feels this way?
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If you don’t like it, quit and find another way to make money instead of doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
The choice is yours.
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“Construction worker,” lol.
What exactly are you looking for? You’re getting paid to let him use your body, aren’t you? If you don’t like it, quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and get a regular job.
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To begin with, you clearly don’t understand what an adult relationship is supposed to be.
I’d rather women who use papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) as manual labor to make money stay away from dating clubs, at least.
And honestly, if I were going to have an adult relationship with a jaded woman who thinks of it as construction work or manual labor, I wouldn’t want to pay ¥50,000 for it.
For ¥30,000, I can have an adult relationship with a reasonably attractive woman at a hostess club anyway, lol.
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I think you’re simply mistaken in assuming that the man has genuinely fallen for you.
The appeal of a dating club lies in that fine line—it’s not just about satisfying sexual urges, but it isn’t true love either.
If you can’t understand that subtle distinction, you won’t enjoy seeing an older partner, and even when you receive an allowance, all you’ll do is complain.
It’s an adult pastime. Even if you’re over twenty, people with a low level of emotional maturity should stay away.
Marika
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Those kinds of complaints would sound a little more heartfelt coming from someone who works in places like Tobita Shinchi.
The fact that you can choose for yourself, yet still complain while playing the victim, feels very adolescent. Maybe you haven’t fully grown up yet.
In a sense, the questioner is right. You and your partner aren’t in an “adult relationship.” It’s a relationship between an adult and a child.
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Sometimes I see girls doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and hurting themselves emotionally in the process, almost as if it were self-harm. I think, if they don’t like it, they should just quit. Take care.
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I don’t care about women who engage in prostitution through dating clubs, openly calling it physical labor, and I don’t find it disturbing or thought-provoking.
Goodbye.
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