I tried papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because my friends-with-benefits weren’t satisfying me, but all I found were clueless old guys—basically caregiving, lol.
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It’s not like you’re supposed to just pound away as hard as possible.
And if you’re digging around inside with your nails like a maniac, you’re never going to hit the G-spot.
At least learn where the G-spot is.
I can’t find anyone who understands the portio!
How about relearning what you think you know?
Do you ever make an effort to learn again? Can’t you let go of your preconceptions and think more flexibly?
Do you think experience is everything just because you’re getting older…?
Why not apprentice yourself to a young player?
If that’s not possible, it’s the internet age, so try learning something new. AV sex is performative, so having someone do that to you just hurts—don’t watch it as a guide.
The fact that you don’t even try to gain knowledge—that’s what makes you an old guy.
If you don’t even try to understand a woman’s body, I label you as someone lacking consideration, so I’m not interested no matter how generous (well-paying) your allowance is.
Isn’t there anyone who’s skilled and generous with their allowance? (crying)
It’s obvious—that’s the kind of technique that makes you think, “No wonder they’re in a sexless marriage, getting divorced, and unable to get married.”
Seriously, no. With guys like this, the roughness is beyond brutal. Go relearn how to do it!
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I see. This question actually gave me a business idea.
If your thinking is really as you say, I don’t think you’re suited for papa-katsu. But if you put that experience to use and opened a sex school, you could probably make good money.
Something with a slightly dominant, drill-sergeant-like teaching style—actually teaching through hands-on experience with the questioner’s body. I bet lots of men with a submissive side who want to get better at sex would flock to it.
Advertise it online and it’d be guaranteed to thrive（笑）
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That gentleman really has very little experience with women. Since you seem to know a lot about this, why not teach him a thing or two? Think of it as training him.
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You say not to watch porn, but I feel like knowledge about the G-spot and the posterior fornix spread through porn in the first place…
My guess is that the questioner has never encountered a skilled man.
It seems like you’ve become a bit of an armchair expert from half-baked knowledge.
By the way, even if you use your nails and rummage around, you can still hit the G-spot. The reason you should keep your nails short is that long nails can scratch the mucous membranes inside, causing pain or bleeding.
There’s no doubt that all the rough fingering people do after watching porn is influenced by squirting.
I’ve also heard from adult performers that squirting in porn can be quite painful when the male performer isn’t very skilled.
I wonder how many men actually understand what they’re doing when it comes to the G-spot or the posterior fornix…
I’ve touched many women’s bodies and am generally considered fairly skilled, but I can’t say I know exactly where the G-spot is. Honestly, my understanding is more like, “It’s probably around here.”
Every woman’s body is different, and it’s fun watching how each person responds—that’s why adult play never gets boring, haha.
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The portio is in a place that can only be reached by a handsome-looking dick, so whether you’re good or bad at sex doesn’t really matter.
I’m absolutely terrible at sex, and I look like a run-down version of Muneo Suzuki, but my dick is handsome, so reaching the portio is easy. Not a handsome face—an ikedick, I guess.
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My spouse filed a non-acceptance request, so they won’t divorce me. Meanwhile, people are waiting for a spot to open up, begging me to marry them.
Is it because my technique is really that amazing?
Whenever I run into old classmates, they tell me, “You must be incredible…” Even though they have no idea…
And neither does the person asking this question…
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Sorry you ended up with a guy who wasn’t very good. Luck plays a part, but it might be worth developing a sense for judging whether someone will be good from the way he talks before going to his place.
- Can he adjust his pace to match his partner?
- Does he know how much is appropriate? Does he vary the intensity?
- Can he multitask? Is he observant?
- Do you seem compatible? Do your thoughts and rhythms align?
People say that men who are good drivers are also good in bed. That sounds a bit like an urban legend, but I think you can get a fairly good idea from the way someone carries on a conversation and behaves.
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I’ve never met anyone that bad, and as long as he’s got decent equipment, you can guide him and make him into whatever you like.
Sex isn’t something one person does unilaterally, nor is it something that’s simply done for you.
If you want someone to do all the work, I hear there are services for women, so maybe that would be better.
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Anyway, you’ve really been through it.
I can definitely tell you’re worked up, but it sounds like you may have gotten yourself pretty “developed,” huh? LOL Was it your fuck buddy’s doing? lol
If you’re telling people to look it up online, maybe you should look into where this is headed yourself.
I’m a little concerned that you’re so irritated. Well, it’s none of my business, so whatever. LOL
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Apparently, there are men who are good at it, so I guess the questioner has just had bad luck.
That said, I think a lot of the men who are attracted to women like the questioner tend to be that kind of guy.
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