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Jan 28, 2022 11:57
8 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Have you ever come across women whose profiles said:
- Restaurant work → hostess club
- Student → part-time hostess club worker
- Student → delivery health service
I can say for sure that I actively avoid choosing women with nightlife jobs when making offers on Fuu.
Two of them were awful, so I declined on the spot and didn’t continue seeing them. One was considerate, comfortable around older men, and friendly from the start—she held my hand with interlocked fingers and cuddled up to me, which was nice.
We dated for a little while, but I eventually lost interest because of the smell of cigarettes.
Rather than things falling apart halfway through because of a gap in expectations, I feel like arrangements with papas who are okay with nightlife workers from the start might last longer, but…
Other
I’m really not comfortable with hostesses, but I have no problem with women who work in the adult entertainment industry.
There are plenty of male members, so you’ll meet all kinds of people. I think it’s best to be honest about it. Otherwise, realizing after you meet that you’re not comfortable with each other would just be a waste of time for both of you.
Other
How about saying you worked at an izakaya? Since it’s a drinking establishment, it wouldn’t exactly be a lie…
I think a lot of men don’t like women who work in adult entertainment or nightlife jobs. If you decide to register, try to present yourself as a refined, well-bred young lady.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
If you genuinely want to become close, I think it’s better to keep your nightlife job private. Working at a bar might be okay, though.
Once you’ve grown close and he becomes a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter), how about leaving the nightlife industry and switching to a daytime job?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I can’t meet at night, so I’d get found out.
Maybe it’s better not to join…
Paper Airplane
A lot of men at clubs shy away from that, so you’re more likely to find a good papa through people you know or customers if you work nights (even as a bar staff member). And it’s more fun that way. Meeting someone naturally is a whole different thing…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Some men apparently shy away from women who work in the nightlife industry. But I think it’s better not to try to cover it up or misrepresent yourself.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Why not just say you work the night shift at a convenience store?
Girls have all kinds of circumstances, so it’s okay to lie. Even if I found out it was a lie, I’d forgive you.
Life is tough for girls, and they weren’t all born strong enough to handle everything, so a papa’s job is to gently embrace them—including their lies.
As for old guys, even when they have money, they’re still Carlos Ghosn (their allowance goes down), so they have absolutely no right to criticize anyone for lying.
Cheap old guys are always ridiculously hard on girls, aren’t they? What’s with that...? They’re easy on themselves (by skimping on the allowance) but incredibly strict with others (women)...
That said, Rin, your attitude is absolutely right. I’m grateful that women feel that way.
Other
Some people may shy away from women who work in nightlife, while others may not mind, but I think lying is the worst option.
Women who work in nightlife tend to be more attentive to men, so I think that might give them away. Since not everyone can do that, it’s actually an impressive skill.
Why not go to an interview once? Nothing will change unless you give it a try!
Best of luck!