We're nearly 30 years apart, and he's older than my parents. Does he really think we're going to be able to have a conversation…?
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The generation gap is huge, yet he asks me about my views on love and relationships. Honestly, I'm impressed in a strange way.
That grandpa should offer to meet women in their 40s instead.
Don't you care about how old someone looks, not to mention the generation gap?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
At this rate, you’ll just end up as an average papa-katsu girl.
If you become such a great communicator that your papa never feels the generation gap, you can earn a lot more.
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It depends on the person.
Sometimes I listen with a smile while thinking, “What a ridiculous story from some brat.” Other times, their youthful perspective offers refreshing ideas and inspires me in a positive way.
It’s the same for me.
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There’s a lot we can learn from older people. I want to use those lessons to enrich my own life going forward, so I actively listen to their stories and experiences.
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I agree with what Flag Maker said.
There’s so much we can learn from people older than us.
Since joining a dating club gives you the chance to talk with people you’d never normally meet in everyday life, I think it’s best to take in as much as you can rather than dismissing it as a generation gap.
That’s exactly why I joined SALON—I wanted those kinds of experiences. I believe the whole point of a dating club is meeting people from different generations, not just those close to your own age.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
You’d be surprised how much you can learn from an old geezer’s stories.
People say to learn from history, right? Hearing about someone else’s life is basically the same as learning history.
What was that person feeling at the time, and what conclusion did they reach? Hearing those real stories firsthand can be a kind of vicarious experience. It broadens your perspective.
Try asking that filthy old guy, “Did you ever go through anything difficult when you were young?”—you’ve got nothing to lose. You’ll get some surprisingly good stories.
Getting someone to talk about what you want to hear is also a form of offensive defense.
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You can have a perfectly good conversation even with a large age gap.
If you’re receiving an allowance, the least you can do is listen to him and make an effort to engage.
A generation gap is only natural. If you can’t provide an enjoyable conversation that bridges it, that’s simply a shortcoming on your part.
Go do something nice for your grandfather, then come back.
Marika
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Sorry about that!
Actually, I enjoy the generation gap.
I don’t have a daughter either, so she’s really adorable to me (lol). Of course, I treat her well.
Please guide her while keeping an eye on how she’s doing… (lol)
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If that’s how you feel, why not simply decline the offer?
Just let the staff know right away that you can’t accept offers from anyone over the age of 〇.
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Of course I care about the generation gap.
It brings back memories of being criticized by some brain-dead person who said things like, “How messed up do you have to be to look for a marriage partner for your ‘ace’?” and, “How disgusting is it that you can have sex with a woman you see as your daughter?” (stares off into the distance)
There’s no way you can genuinely see a woman more than two generations younger than you as a romantic prospect. At least I can’t.
That’s why I “mentor” them. I help find a marriage partner for my ace. I see her as something like a daughter half the time, after all.
But since we’re not related by blood, I can still see her as a woman to some extent, so sex is possible. As they say, two pleasures in one.
Your instincts are right.
The only problem is that your much-older papa (a male supporter) is completely out of his mind. I’m sure that papa is a Mr. Ghosn—an allowance of 5.
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