Tips Jan 26, 2022 20:50

During a conversation with the woman I’m seeing, she casually said something that made me feel she sees me as an older man. I’m only in my mid-40s and she’s 26—do women her age start viewing men as “older guys” around this age?

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If you look and sound like an old man, by your mid-40s, you’ll have truly mastered the art of being one.
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ダイ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. The person asking this question is around the same age as me. To girls in their twenties, we’re definitely old men. You should be broad-minded enough to laugh it off when someone calls you an old man.
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆ You’re practically a grandpa by now, aren’t you? He’s in his 30s.
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When I was 24, I was seeing a 41-year-old man, but I called him an “old guy” when talking to my friends. Like, “Listen to this—the old guy…” or “Marika, are you still seeing that old guy?” If you’re in your mid-20s, someone in their late 30s probably looks like an old guy to you. Marika
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. When I was in my 20s, I thought men in their late 30s were old guys. So now that I’m in my late 30s, I’m an old guy too. Men in their mid-40s are old guys as well. Once you become an old guy, the difference between effort and relying on natural ability starts to show. That’s why I find life easier now that I’m an old guy.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. LOL. When you were 20, you probably thought of your mother as an older woman—excuse me—or did you see her as more of a young lady? (笑) The age gap is almost exactly the same. He’s an older man. I understand that you want to resist seeing it that way, but...
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シアトル
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
That’s a joke, right? If 45 isn’t an older man, then what is?
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I'm Kazu, a male member. Let's think back. When we were in our 20s, we probably thought men in their 40s were old guys too.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. They probably will notice. First, accept the situation and act your age as an older man (lol).
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負け男
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
With a 20-year age gap, she probably sees you as a grandpa rather than an older man.
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