I’m an office worker who recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I have a genuine question.
There was a recent incident in which a woman involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) was arrested, and I’d like to hear what impressions it left on you.
Personally, I had only ever heard of trouble where the man was the perpetrator, so it never occurred to me that the opposite could happen.
I assume members of Universe Club probably wouldn’t cause any problems, but I’d still like to hear everyone’s personal opinions and impressions.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Trouble happens when you try to do something unreasonable in the first place. Give up on unreasonable things, and you won’t run into problems.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It was certainly a tragic incident, but I also see it as a negative campaign implying that this is what happens because people engage in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
The same goes for the adult entertainment industry: even if you become quite close with someone, you should still take basic precautions, such as bringing your valuables into the shower room with you.
If my money were stolen, I might reflect on my own actions and think, “I must have handled things in a way that made it possible for this to happen.”
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
You mean the Ikebukuro incident, right? The news reported that the woman called it papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but she said it wasn’t through a club or anything like that—they met because he approached her on the spot that day. It really made me realize you never know what might happen.
Since I’m with SALON, there’s a 20-minute getting-to-know-you period. We meet and talk inside SALON first, and only go out together if we both feel comfortable, so I feel reassured about that.
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It was truly a heartbreaking incident, and I pray that the deceased rests in peace. Still, I can’t help but speculate that maybe it happened because the allowance was too low.
Maybe she was given only 20,000 yen, felt it wasn’t enough, tried to steal more, and that led to a dispute or something like that.
That incident probably involved someone working the streets, though, right? Or am I mistaken? I haven’t really followed the news closely.
Since I offer a generous allowance, we usually end up bowing to each other. I always bow when handing it over, and the woman bows back, so it turns into this mutual bowing and gratitude exchange.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Are you referring to the case where an elderly man in his 80s caught a woman trying to steal money, was stabbed with a utility knife, and died of hemorrhagic shock?
I understood that women can also be the perpetrators, so my only reaction is that these things do happen.
Just because it’s an exclusive dating club doesn’t mean a woman won’t steal money—or lash out and stab someone. Apparently, men do occasionally have money stolen from them by women.
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