I met a man in his 70s once, but he sends me dozens of emails almost every day. And I can barely make sense of what he writes.
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We don’t really click in conversation, but I could put up with that because I understood what he meant. However, his writing is incredibly difficult to decipher. Even when I ask what he’s talking about, his replies are just as incomprehensible.
His old-man smell was unbearable, but his allowance was incredibly high—three figures—so I was thinking of seeing him again. However, the stress from all the emails is overwhelming, and now I’m tempted to cut things off. I’m torn about whether I should end it based on the emails alone. Is there any way to get him to stop emailing me?
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How about sending him about one email a day, saying, “Sorry, I can’t email while I’m at work”?
If even that feels stressful, maybe you should give up on the three-digit allowance, haha.
Like Nana, I have a feeling you’ll eventually figure out what that code means.
Good luck.
Marika
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This is NANA Ayase☆
He must have really liked you—that’s great. I don’t think there are many people who give a three-figure allowance, so make sure you never let him go.
Before long, you’ll start to understand what that code means.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
If you’re getting a three-figure allowance, I don’t think replying to emails should be stressful at all. But if you really dislike that part, you’d probably be better off seeing a regular papa who you genuinely click with and who offers a reasonable allowance.
Even a part-time job replying to emails probably wouldn’t pay that much. If you’re getting that much, you could practically hire someone to reply to your emails for about ¥1,200 an hour. (Haha)
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Personally, I don’t want to date a woman who sees her allowance as compensation for putting up with me.
If she has to force herself to continue seeing me, I’d say it’s time for me to leave this world behind.
If you see the allowance as compensation for putting up with someone, then you probably have to deal with emails like that as well.
If you’re receiving an allowance in the seven-figure yen range as compensation for putting up with someone, that level of service is only to be expected.
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This isn’t really an answer, but I thought I’d share some casual thoughts from the provider’s side.
I’m a papa (a male supporter) who gives a high six-figure to seven-figure monthly allowance in yen, but figuring out how to interact with the women I support is MAX difficulty.
It’s all about putting on a brave face.
Part of me assumes that giving this kind of money means I have to be a gentlemanly papa, so I’m constantly studying and trying to improve.
I actually know a papa who gives a woman eight figures a month, and he literally does nothing—he just gives her the money. Seeing that makes me think, “So that’s how it’s supposed to be?” and try to understand the ways of an upper-level papa.
When it comes to how you give money, your true character really shows, so I can’t afford to mess it up.
I can’t bring myself to ask them to meet, let alone send them an email. I just have to become a mysterious benefactor.
The return doesn’t come from the women. It comes from increasing my own standing and earning more in the future.
I’ve treated countless people to meals and other things for decades, and I feel like the payback is finally coming now. I have no choice but to believe that.
Like a Buddhist chant, I keep repeating:
“Money makes the world go round.”
The generous (well-paying) papa I know is so incredibly generous that he isn’t useful as a reference. I’d love for a moderately generous papa to answer this.
The attitude of “I give you plenty of allowance, so anything goes, right?” is clearly different from my stance as a papa. But doing absolutely nothing feels wrong too, and asking for something in return doesn’t feel right either.
Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is deep. Maybe I’d be happier just paying 50,000 yen per meeting and getting busy.
Still, what I’m aiming for is to reach even greater heights as a businessman, so I have no choice but to use papa-katsu as a place to train and keep working at it.
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Is this the kind of email with a broken Enter key and line breaks that inspire envy?
As long as it’s entertaining, I guess—lol.
Would it be four figures after meeting ten times? It’s definitely not an arrangement you come across just anywhere.
Good luck with everything, including the emails!
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I think it depends on what matters most to you.
If allowance is your top priority, you may have to think of messaging as part of the allowance and reply accordingly. But if you value chemistry more, you could choose not to reply—or only reply once every three messages.
That said, I don’t think there are many supporters who offer such a generous allowance, so I’d recommend replying to the messages.
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